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Archived questions from: 26 April, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why isn't he communicating with me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - ok, there's this guy that i really like, i've known him a while and we've been out with each other once before, recently after breaking up with the guy i lost my virginity to, i had sex with him, we'd just decided to meet up after not seeing each ...

My b/f still in closet, I understand, but I want to be with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I'm a guy and i have been dating this guy for the past 4 and half months and in the beginning everything was fine, we saw each other every week and we talked just about every single day, up until 2 months ago when things began to change, seeing him ...

Are these arguments normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Okay So, Firstly it's been a long time since I asked question's using this website. I was 15/16 when I used it, I am now 18. I started thinking that if I can't deal with relationship problems myself and confront things with myself and my ...

Problems galore--B/f has no job, obsessed with playstation and porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for nearly ayear and a half, I live at his house at the moment as he likes me to be here and i love bieng with him!! I and would like to have our personal space in a flat. I am finding it very claustraphobic living ...

I love the man but don't like him most of the time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I have been in the same relationship for 20 years. I was injured at work and have not been able to work for 6 months. I am on living on a very limited income and try to budget each day. My partner is careless and doesn't budget for anything not ...

Am I pushing him into a corner to get him to let me move in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in a long distance relationship of 70 miles which doesn't sound like much but I'm finding really difficult. I am 26 and he is 31. We've been together 10 rather tumutuous months. I see him very often really considering he has a very busy ...

Boyfriend, marriage and family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined....Hi, I am 26 and my boyfriend is 31. We've been together 10 months now. I'm very keen to marry him and he would also like to be married. We have some issues in terms of religious and cultural differences. A m...

She doesn't know I'm married after 1 year relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I live in Shanghai and have been in a good relationship with a 28 year old Chinese girl for almost a year, I am 37 years old. She is a very sweet girl and I feel she truly loves me. She is traditional and wants to get married soo...

Jealousy, Trust and Respect... am I crazy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Why do people assume that jealousy in a relationship means a lack of trust or some insane amount of insecurity? I'm not talking about jealousy gone out of hand like expecting the other to call every hour or report their schedule or some such non...

Does my girlfriend have the hots for our room mate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - over the past months my girlfriend has changed, she doesnt desire sex with me, and i feel like our room mate is the reason why. She claims to hate him but, find them glaring at each other, getting each others attention. I have noticed her ...

Girlfriend's controlling parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - well I've been my girlfriend for almost 4 years. she's 21 I'm 20. We're great together and are happy with each other. but her parents are the control obsessive type to the point where they constantly call her to know where she is at all the time ...

My family may dissown me if I get back with my bf

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Just wanted to see what everyones thoughts are on my situation... My boyfriend got violent with me a few weeks ago, he didn't hit me, just pushed me and stuff. I had him arrested that night and have not had him back to the house since then. We a...

Told my b/f to move out, get his baggage in order and then we'll work things out! Thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - My BF of 2 years has been living with me for 1.5. He was recently divorced and didn't help me out for the 1st year as he was saving to refinance one of their homes from his divorce. By year 2, he had sold his boat for quite a bit and turned around ...

He loves me but I want to marry and he doesn't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Am I flogging a dead horse? I live with my boyfriend and two other male roommates. My boyfriend tells me he loves me all the time, and does show it sometimes (he is a big tough guy on the outside so it's sometimes rather difficult to get...

He seems so lazy I'm thinking of leaving

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Hi guys, i have a bit of a problem, but doesn't everyone who writes on here! Anyway, i am with this guy, i love him very much, we have been together for almost 11 months, he's lovely, i love pretty much everything about him. There are just a few t...

2 men and I don't know what to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Okay, I honestly dont know where to start.... well lets just jump in I have a 2 month old lil boy with a man i have been with for 3 years but for the past month i have been havin a emotional affair i have not slept with this new man but i have ...

He's stressed, no contact..should I contact him or will it cause more stress for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I ve tried the internet dating thing for a good two years now with a varying degree of success. Several weeks ago I started chatting to a guy and we got on really well. Over the Easter holidays we decided to meet up and had a great time. Since the...

Boyfriend always goes along with friends saying he's gay! Is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - is my bf gay we've been together for 3 and half years and his friends always joke about him being gay and he always goes along with it. He left one of his girl mates but nail polish on him and at a party he wore a dress as a dare im so confused liek ...

After almost 3 years he says he likes me alot but doesn't love me "YET"???!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Ok so I have a question. I am 21 years old and he is 24 I have been with this guy for almost 3 years. I would think he loves me but when I ask him he always says he is not in love with me. He always says he really likes me a lot but he does not...

I'm married but still talking to and thinking of my ex. Why do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I am 20 years old and married, I have been married for about a year and a half now. I am from Mississippi and joined the army about two years ago and now I am staioned in NC.before I started dating the girl that is now my wife I had a girlfriend ...

Give me some advice on how to trust again!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - hey all this is kind of long so thanks for taking the time to read it if you can. Been with my partner for a year now. i love him so much as he does me. there is just one thing that is ruining us, and that is my trust issues, i got hurt badly by...

I'm falling for my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we have two kids we have been falling out for 2 or 3 years. i met his friend 7 years ago to and instantly fell head over heels. then him and my boyfriend got into it and quit talking for a long time. they ...

I guess she thinks that I only want to have sex with her but I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - Ok I've asked this question before but I don't get many answers so I'm asking again. I'm sort of in love with this girl. She is one of my best friends and in many ways she is my best friend. I mean she is the only one that supports me when I say I'm ...

Do I just see her and wait to see if the counseling and meds have helped her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5122 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - Hi I met a girl through work last year and did allot of work together. We both went on seperate holidays and missed each other like mad. We got back and i left my partner for her and moved in with her. After a few months due presure she had a...

His kinkiness is freaking me out a little!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I met a man through a friend. We have not met yet. We have been trying to get to know oneanother though emails and text for several months. I am very attracted to him probably because opposites attract. i am on the conservative side with a little ...

I ripped the shirt off his back and he broke up with me but I want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - boyfriend of a year and a half doesn't want me anymore :( everything was perfect when we first got together but he was doing all of the running as i could take it or leave it but now it's the other way around. he's really down and depressed and take...

How can I catch my wife out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - i am in uk. my wife living in her mothers home in india along with her brother. i am suspecting she is doing sex with her own brother while i am doing phonesex with her. how can i caught her please help me....

I've not known him long and I don't think I can trust him, but I'm 7 weeks pregnant! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - well, in a bit of a mess met this guy not known him long, he said he wanted our own place which we got and wanted a baby, which has now happened.. im now 7 weeks pregnant and he does not want to know, he has 2 children with his previous and has ...

My boyfriend has cheated on me and told me he does not love me anymore, but he will stay with me and pretend he has feelings for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - What do you do when your bf of over a year tells you even when he doesn't love you anymore, he'll keep you and lie that he still has feelings for you. Later on you find out that he's cheated on you with a girl from his university. ...

Should I tell my family how I feel or just keep my distance from them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Hey all im really fed up of my family and i need some advice. Im 18 and im fed up of my dad's side of my family. There bitchy, spiteful and selfish and ive basically had enough now. My dads's parents have 3 children, my auntie, my dad, and my uncl...

Why was my ex so eager to talk to me but now she has made no more attempts to talk again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I talked to my ex for the first time Friday after almost 2 months since we broke up and a month of not talking even though we were in NC for over 3 weeks. I have some earlier post on this site where I mentioned how she initiated contact with me,...

Porn is taking over his life! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - My husband spends more time looking at and downloading porn than he does with me. He wont even let me watch it with him. What do i do? ...

Should I forgive my ex and continute to hope she will come back to me one day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I love my ex, we were together for almost 4 years. We were always arguing for probably 6 months (which was 1 of the reasons to me getting depression). The problem mostly was we never gave each other space, especialy her as she in very clingy. It ...

How do I undo the damage I did by keeping contact with my ex wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I must have done everything wrong that I could do in regard to my ex-wife. Even though she is now in a rebound relationship with the man she was secretly seeing for several months. The affair has brought out the worst in me. I know I wasn't the one ...

Is it wrong to end an unhappy relationship for a happy one with an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - if someone (already involved in a long term relationship that saddly brings that person mostly unhappieness) happens to reunite with an ex from ten years ago, found that the feelings for their ex was still very, very strong, would it be wrong to ...

Does he go limp because of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I am having a problem with my sex life. Almost everytime me and my husband have sex he goes limp. He gets off within two minutes sometimes less, but he stops himself quick and once he does that he goes limp with in seconds. This is fusterating and ...

Boyfriend doesn't trust me, but I want him to be happy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - My ex broke up with me over a text message, and I told him it was over for good (we had a habit of breaking up and making up). Now he texts me and calls me everyday, telling me he's sorry, and how I'm making a mistake, that why can't I give him one ...

Confused on whether I made a mistake

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my bf for 2 in a half yrs.. When I found out that he had cheated.. I confronted him and he had said yes he did.. I ask him why he didn't tell me and he said beacuse he knew I was going to leave him... Then he told me he knew he had ...

Life full of unrequited love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - I am not sure what I am doing wrong but I always seem to get into unrequited love. And it drains me both emotionally and physically. I am in love with a woman currently but she sees me as a good friend and I have asked her a couple of times but she ...

My shy boyfriend makes me feel stupid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - ok, so me and my boyfriend of about 6 months are still going strong but i have a few issues that i would love to have some answers to. ok first off: he is really really quiet and that's not always the best. I love him and want to be with him for a ...

I feel guilty about what I did.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - i am in a committed relation for 4 yrs and also have a friend since then, though never so close in past, now we used to meet a bit more often but things were very clear about our friendship. lately i got a little physically involved with my friend, ...

Confused and wondering what this means.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend told me last night that he will not leave me for another woman but will for his son. Then he said I'm honest just don't ask me if I slept with, what does it mean. We were suppose to get closer after his court with his ex nut it's made ...

I'm waiting for him to end it but he isn't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5125 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - why do the guys dont tell to their gf, if they dont want to be with them? instead of doing this, they do not text to their gf.. Here is my situation, me and my bf start not to text to each other and he texted to me today asking me, if we still co...