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Archived questions from: 16 April, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

After all these months, should I continue to wait for him? He was my first...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - i hav a bf we hav 6 years seeing each other he lives 80miles away frm me....11 months ago he said he had to leave to another state for 4 months for work 4 months went by then 5 months n finally i got just a letter...after 8 months he txt me that he ...

Should I just stay friends with this guy? Move forward and try to make it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - he says he loves me i feel like i should trust him....but we like to do totally different things but when it comes to us just being together it just feels right.....but i dont know what to do about this feeling that i have that its just not ...

Forgetfulness -- Is it because you are unimportant or is this a case of absentmindedness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - Hey guys, first post so here goes(apologize if I am a bit long-winded) This has to do with a "friend" I had a few months ago(friend in commas cuz I am not sure I was their friend). One of the problems we encountered was that I would tell them ...

Should I be just friends? He is married, too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I am a married mum of twins who has fallen out of love with my husband of 15 years. He was my first love, however we never go out and he runs up parking fines and bills and never pays, so bailiffs are always knocking on our door and he constantly ...

Told him of my past, idk if he really loves me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 6 monthz almost 7 and im really in love with him but its not the same as before.he use to treat me really good but after awhile he started treating me really bad because of things i told him about the past n til this ...

Did he write these things to get rid of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - i was with my boyfriend for four years, he cheated on me a few years back, we stayed together. Then he was flirting with people. He always kept secrets but id find some out now and then, also caught him out on a some lies. today i saw on his faceb...

Why does he send his ex vids of us having sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - Why does my boyfriend do this? He is still in close contact with his ex. They had a long distance relationship for 3 years and they still talk and text pretty regular. I know he sometimes sends her vids and pics of US having sex or...he does thi...

I want to have my cake and eat it too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - *Op's own title* So I have been in a relationship for about a year in a half. We have been living together for almost a year, but I'm only 19 almost 20. We started dating right after i got out of a bad relationship and moved in when we were only toge...

Should I stay in this or should I leave her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl for about 4 months now, when we first started talking she had been in a 4 yr relationship with a guy who she felt wasn't as committed as she was. Well we started talking and next thing you know we were madly in love and not ...

He wont marry me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (?) - So, I've been with my BF for 4 years now. We lived together for 2 years and now I bought a house and i live there by myself because I only want him to live there with me once we're emarried. Right, married. Whenever I bring the marriage issue up he ...

Should I have an affair with this man or would my ex-boyfriend think badly of me if I did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - Well,my problem is somewhat weird. I broke up with my bf few months back. I thought i would never get over him but i guess i am over him though not completely. During this time,i met a guy online. I have known him for years. He asked me about my...

My boyfriend has started to sleep on the couch instead of in bed with me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I have a concern about my relationship with my boyfriend. We been involved for four years now, we do live together. I have a problem with him when he sleeps on the couch instead in the bed with me. He has done this in the past with another ...

Will my married former lover contact me sometime down the road? I never even got to say goodbye!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for almost a year. Things started to get more serious the past few months, but then we had to stop seeing each other. Apparently, he was married this whole time and I never knew about it. She just recently found out about us, ...

My love for a colleague is stopping me from being productive at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - im hopelessly in love with someone at work, unfortunately he sees me as a friend only. we share an office, meaning we spend 12 hours everyday in the same room. i kinda asked him if we could date and he made it clear to me that he sees me as a fri...

Are we having too much sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - hey, ok so i guess this isnt a huge deal but me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months. im 17 hes 21. every single time we see each other we have sex, at least 3 times too, we see each other about 3-4 times a week, is this too much? ...

Should I tell my ex I still have feelings for him even though we split up 5 years ago?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - should i tell my old flame that i still have feelings for him, though we broke up 5 years ago. and there has been others after him?...

I'm not sure how to react now I have found out my boyfriend masturbates over his ex!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I just unintentionally found out my boy of 3 years (rarely) wanks to the memory of having sex with his ex. (She was his first, and he says he's totally over her - they have no contact) He said it's just a different type of sex, where as we 'mak...

Is it really messed up that I am in love with him yet he only wants to use me for "sexual fun"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - hi hunnys I am friends with this man and we are both adults I am 25 and he is 27. We have been friends for a very long time and only recently has it become sexual. We haven't had sex but we have discussed it. we haven't even kissed we have a...

We had to break up because of our religions! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - hi cupid i have a girlfriend but we've just broken up and we love each other a lot but problem is that she is sikh and i am hindu and she says her parents wont allow hindu boys. what should i do i cant live with out her plz help ...

His friends are frustrating me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been on and off for the past year and something that i noticed lately thats been bothering me are his friends (both girls and boys). His friends aren't the friendliest people, i am the most outgoing friendliest pers...

She has got back in touch after almost a month, what should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - Alright so a month and a half ago my girlfriend of 3 and a half years dumped me for being too obsessive so to say. I posted a question here weeks ago about me wanting to get her back and applying the no contact rule. Well nearly a month has gone by ...

He never has the time to talk to me anymore, should I just end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I am in a distance relationship for 3 months now i love my boyfriend so much and he say he loved me too but there is a big BUT it seems like he don't love me anymore because he doesn't have time for me. he say everytime that he is busy he don't want ...

How can I mend my broken heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - hi, i hope someone can help me get over this as my heart is so so sore, about 35 years ago i fell in love with a guy we were getting married then something happened and we drifted apart 8 weeks later he was married, the night he got married he ...

Is being a martyr to the man you love worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I am in a very complicated situation of a relationship...we already have one baby and he is being responsible with him.But we are not leaving in same house he just paying where the place i stay.He never said he loves me but he just say he likes ...

I think she might be using me and trying to control me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - I am 27 and my girlfriend is 38. She has a salon and has alot of male clients that she flirts with. Should I be concerned or let that be? She also has her act together and owns a house and 2 condos that she rents out. I on the other hand have been a ...

Should I give up .... Does he even like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys!!! I need some advice!!!! Ok I really like this Virgo guy…. I’m not really sure why exactly because he doesn’t really put himself out there much lol. We met about 5yrs ago. I worked at a mall and he tried to get my number. I was very att...

Is he just using me to make my best friend jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - Okay, so I like this guy and I have for a while and he finally aked me to prom, but later that day he confessed in a text that he likes my best friend. I am confused if he is using me to get closer to her or if I am a tool to make her jealous or ...

Did I make a mistake by staying with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I was with my bf for a yr. The first summer with him was amazing. Starting off after the summer I found out I was moving. Even though I was moving we decided to stay with each other. After I had left he started to hangout with my cousin. She is a ...

Is she a cheater or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - i dont know what to think?? is my girlfriend cheating? iv been hurt in the past from this and did have trust issues but then i met this perfect girl we remained very very good friends for a while before we both realized we had strong feelings for ...

My boyfriend is acting really strange, what could be going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - I am 24 years old, and my boyfriend is 31.We have been dating for almost three years. About four months ago, he wanted a piece of paper and pen to find out what the cost of something would be, i recently found that piece of paper i gave him and he ...

My girlfriend and I are depressed. How can I get her to open up more, eventually love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - A little background info... I've been dating my girlfriend maybe 4 months, known her for 2 1/2 years before that. I'm 16, will be 17 very soon. I have depression, insomnia, and a bunch of other crap. My girlfriend is 19, will be 20 before I'm 17, ...

My girlfriends Daughter annoys me and I resent her existence!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - I'm 25 and I've been dating my g/f for 5 months now. She got pregnant by some one night stand she didnt know when she was 16 and now has a daughter. I find myself becoming increasingly annoyed with her spoiled five year old daughter. Even resentful. ...

Sister broke up my b/f and I because she was mad at me but he won't believe me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - well my boyfriend who i live w and has helped me so much w my 3 kids( not by him) on saturday found in my email that i had made a post on craigs list looking for a guy...but i didnt do it i was at work when it happened i tried 2 explain this 2 him ...