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Do we have a problem here?

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Question - (19 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Is This A Problem?

A few months ago my boyfriend and I discussed how to have more intimate time since work and being tired were getting in the way. He came up with the idea of planning midweek overnight rendezvous to make sure we got together.

Since then I have planned two of these. He planned one 5 weeks in advance and then backed out on it the day before because he said he was busy and had to be in work at 8am the next day. Then he went into work a couple of hours later anyway.

Should I be worried?

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (19 April 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt Not yet. If he just cancelled once, hey it happens. If that should happen again,- if you start seeing a pattern of making dates and not keeping them, then you have to worry.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2010):

He might just be nervous, or worried that it's not the right time. Talk to him again and see what happens.

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