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writes:After my ex and i broke up, he kept texting me that he wanted me back,i told him that we have to work on a few things first and he agreed! so he came over last night and said that we should live separately giving each other space that way we would not have to be in each others face constantly (we used to live together before we broke up) and i agree with that! i asked him if he would be having sex or talkin to anyone else he said no, that he just thunks that space is good, he left today at around 12 and before he left he said last night was great( we did not have sex) and that he sees some changes and that he sees us going further,he kissed me and left! i am trying not to call him and wait for him to call, giving him his space and not trying to be in his face!do u think that he will come around or should i just move on?my boyfriend only comes over if his friends are not doing anything or if he is bored, do you think that is right? or should i find some one else?
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reader, catcatcat  +, writes (19 April 2010):
I think giving each other space is a good idea - unless thats his lingo for "neglect" and he's using it as an excuse.
Put in mind that if he didn't want you, he would have ditched you and not come back - its pretty easy to find someone else nowadays. Clearly, he's trying to make this work and maybe he thinks missing each other will give you both a fresh start.
try to be a little patient and ask for his insight/ideas always. He might see something you don't, so try to cooperate :)
Good luck !
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Keep your options open and if you find a better one , ditch him. You deserved someone who thinks of you as his priority and not some toy to play with when he is bored.
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Think about this for a moment: What happened in your relationship and why did you two end?
It's great you two are no longer living together so you two can have your own space. But remember this: he is going to want time with the guys. But if he spends too much time with them and only leaves you as a last minute plan, then I'd settle down more things if I were you.
You two ended. I would imagine it was very hard for the both of you. You two, right now, need to spend time to work things out and make sure the past is the past.
Good luck to you.
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