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Does he have another girl or am I just being too paranoid?

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Question - (19 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2010)
A female Singapore age 36-40, *oxy_fox writes:

I have been suffering from this since months ago.

Recently he started to pull back even more. The last time we met was 2 days ago where we were out for a drink. First, I was with my friend then he texted to tell that our outing might be cancelled due to raining. And then my friend told me that he sent him a text asked him to go to the pub but I didn’t receive any text from him. So I pretend that I didn’t know and texted him asking him whats the plan. Then only he asked me that if we (me and my friend) is going to the pub together. That’s strange because he should have just texted me and told me about that.

We usually only meet on weekend when he is around. He is always outstation. Every time we met, we kissed and cuddled but not this time. He wanted to go back earlier because he was tired of the early meeting. I was very disappointed because I have been waiting to meet him and he is acting like that. When he was leaving, he promised that he would text me. But when I reached home, I just get text from him asking if I reached home ok. Then I replied that I reached home safely and thanks. Then he didn’t reply anymore.

And he stopped leaving comments on my facebook.

I feel like he is pulling away. I want to talk to him so badly. And I wonder if he has met another girl. Please help! :’( how to tell if he was just simply tired or he already has another girl? Or am I too paranoid?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (19 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntHe seems to be distancing himself from you and that is a red flag.I am sure you can hug and kiss even if you are very tired. By not doing that, there is definitely something going on in his life.

Whether there is another girl or that he has lost interest in you is anybody's guess.

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