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Archived questions from: 23 April, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Sneaking around on Adultfriendfinder, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - A while back and I got the Mail and I just open the credit card bills and I just found out that he was charging by adultfriendfinder and he was telling me that I cancel it . so yesterday, I just found out that he still on it. so I don't think he...

I wonder sometimes if I should be more bothered by his cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - my boyfriend told me last night that he cheated on me 3 times with 3 different guys. like any other boyfriend, I sorta freaked out. But an hour later, it didnt really phase me at all. Before I got with him, I knew he had a history of cheating with ...

I get excited by other boy's bums more than I do over girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - hi, im sorry if this gets a bit long. so im very very confussed about my sexuality. everyday i go to college and i cant help my self i look at all the bums of the boys. i imagine them naked, and in sexual situations. but with girls i dont do ...

Drugs are involved, he's lying..do I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for just over 2 yrs. we are living together, I have mate his family but he's not mate mine as I come from abroad. I have recently found out that he has been taking mephedrone and the new drug (cannot remmeber what its ...

Perfect relationship apart from the forced celibacy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - My GF and I have been together for six years, I love her so much she is my best friend and I am hers. We do everything together, joke around around, travel, camp, hike, nights out in the city, you name it we do it. Everyone who knows us says that we ...

Is my boyfriend who is says he is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and we're pretty serious...We talk everyday and about everything...He is my first real adult relationship and I've fallen in love with him. The problem is that is older than me (I'm 24), my family ...

I pressed charges against b/f for his behavior, but should I drop them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I am so confused! Please can someone help me to sort out what I am feeling. Basically, my boyfriend attacked me when he had been drinking so I had him arrested and he is now on bail for 3 weeks, he is getting charged with common assault. But I a...

Pregnant and hated, but my ex wants to take the baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - so me and my ex dated for 2 years... it wasnt the best relationship, i loved him but he wasnt too affectionate and we had fights because i was jelous of his ex who was always in the way. he recently moved to another country and after 2 weeks of ...

Our sex life is one sided!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I'm in a relationship of 1 year now I'm 25 and he's 28 we love having sex we have a problem with our sex life he likes when I give him oral sex but when I try to get him to give me oral sex he won't do it and its just not fair and I have stopped ...

How do I make a complete break from this guy I was dating? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I have had many issues, regarding his jealousy and lack of trust because of my past. It's been very draining for both of us, I think. It's been one of those difficult relationships, some of my friends have called it toxic. But we ...

I really resent what my partner's brother did to me...I need ideas on how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I have 2 children with my man of 12 years. I have given his brother alot of money and he has never paid me back, he has never told me sorry, and he doesn't come around me at all right now. This is more than $250,000.00 - and I am crushed. It has ...

Boyfriend threatening to dump me for being overweight!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I am a 20 yr. Old female I been in a relationship of 3 years my boyfriend has a problem with my weight. I'm not too much overweight but I try to do everything I can I go to the gym I eat healthy and I do it all for myself and him but it seems to not ...

Bisexual boyfriend has cheated twice but I can't leave!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - So my bi-boyfriend, the man I have loved for the longest time, the man I have sacrificed so much of my time and have given my entire self to, has just revealed to me that he cheated on me twice: once when we just got to gether, and the second with ...

He says he sometimes can't be himself around me...what on earth does he mean?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My relationship is good, at home my boyfriend is great to me and we've been together 6 years. But when we go out, there's the problem. He recently told me that he can't be himself when I'm around - he can be more rude and talk to who he wants. I'm ...

Married for two years, but we don't understand each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Have been married for two years but we dont quite undestand each other we fight over nothing and sometimes i feel like we were not meant to be together. please help (MOD NOTE: Text edited for clarity)...

He won't tell me what STI I'm supposed to get treatment for!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - hi everyone l real need some advice.l had sex with my bf and after 1 week he send me an a sms saying that l infected him with some kind of sickness l must go for a treatment. l went to de clinic to get help then the nurse told me that they can...

Is he embarrassed by me or bored?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I got a question. My boyfriend been acting distance lately but he don't think so. I would ask him to do stuff with me and he be like no. He download games for me on the computer but when it comes down to us doing stuff together w...

Why am I not welcome to socialise with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years never invites me out with him. He goes out every friday night with his work friends and has only ever asked me to join them once in 3 years. I always invite him to join my friends and I but he never feels inclined to have me ...

Are his looks lustful or appreciative?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4817 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - what kind of looks indicate that a man is looking at a women lustfully..? if he finds a girl pretty and looks back to her several times does it show he s lusting her or just attracted to her beauty..? please help.....

What should my next move be to win back my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5129 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - To start off, few days back I posted a quesion on here regarding the fact that my ex contacted me and confessed that she misses me incredibly after over 3 weeks of NC and a month and half since the breakup. However she was confused as to whether or ...

Closeted lesbian, homophobic society and loveless relationship, please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I am a 30yr old lesbian from a small town in India. I have a problem which is weighing my heart down because ending my 5 yr relationship seems to be the only solution, i can formulate. I hope you will be patient in reading my letter and giving me ...

I'm married, but confused by another man that I like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - A year and a half ago a long lost friend came back into my life. We started texting and I found myself falling in love with him. I'm married and but there is something about him that I don't want to let go. he told me on a few differant occassions ...

My mom in one corner, my husband in the other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I am so confused. I have been with my partner 4 yaers now and have a 3 year old son. My mother hates my husbands guts and vice versa. It all started 1 yaer ago at my sons 2nd birthday my mum was sick of seeing me crying because of my husband ...

Engaged to one man but still love another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5123 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Please bare with me. This is a rather long one. I had been dating two different men for a brief time. It was not at the same time, just back and forth. Man number 1 was the one I was absolutely smitten with. He had commitment issues. Man numb...

He's gay but he bites me alot and I like it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - me and my best friend matt spend every waking moment together. we go to the park behind his house play on swings etc. lately weve been spending alot of time sitting in my car talking and singing and hes started to get a little sexual. we hold ...

Is he gay or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - There is this guy in our circle of friends. We grew up in the same city and we know a lot of the same people in our city. We get along great. We have the same humor and we are always laughing. Our circle of friends is pretty close. So this guy, it'...

Odd Relationship. An Unbalanced Relationship? How Do I Balance us/ Make This Work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused my "bf" and i have an odd relationship.We see and speak to each other almost daily.I go over at night mainly - we go out, watch movies, play pool etc.When drunk he practically loves me and seems insecure, jealous..fiesty. He ...

Should I start charging my boyfriend rent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 12 years and I have 2 children together. We have moved to 3 different houses in our years together all of which I paid for with cash. I am happy in the 3rd home I have purchased, we live in a lakefront home, have a boat, and the kids ...

Is there any hope for this marriage after 25 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - Hi, i last wrote for help around a month ago. I was so desperately sad for my husband and the situation that we were in as a family. My husband lost his mum around a year ago and was treating me very badly, so bad I would just cry for days and feel...