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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My b/f and I have been dating for almost 10 months. I had major trust issues from a previous relationship that had been a strain on ours until I started going to therapy. He has started going to therapy for some issues HE'S been having, and things have been going really well for us. He recently won primary custody of his son, who has gone to be with my b/f's ex (his son's mother) for the summer. This is my b/f's first week "childless," and he went out to shoot pool with a buddy last night. We have a family cell phone plan, and I used to look at the records all the time and freak out about two female friends in particular who he texts back and forth with a LOT. I've gotten much better with that recently, but for some reason today (probably b/c he said he wouldn't be out late last night and didn't get home until 1 a.m. on a Monday night), I did. Turns out he was texting back and a forth the entire night with both of these girls (one is a girl he works with, and the other is an old friend from college...both of whom allegedly know about me, but I've never met either one), including up until right before he got home to me at 1 a.m. I'm paranoid that he texted them to come meet him at the bar (he was supposedly at the Legion), or just that they were inappropriately texting since he was drinking. At the same time, he's been without a cell phone for 4 days, so maybe they were just catching up. I'm trying to get over any lingering trust issues and stop being so paranoid, but it's still bothering me. He swears he would never cheat on me, has no interest in these girls, etc., but I still have a knot in my stomach about it. Any thoughts??
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