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41-50,
*lairyfairy
writes:If a man loves you and wants to be with u .and they r saying that u make them a bettter person. And he has never felt this way b4.hes lucky. I only no the true him. Why would he keep leaving me.then begging me back wks and months later saying how wrong he was he has a problem hes messed up in the head.and promise to change. He knows i love him so so much and i would do anything 2 be with him. I miss terribly. Its like we have such a great time when we r together. Its not just sex either. We go out for meals do stuff. Have a lovely time so intense feeling. And yet why wouldnt he want to be with me properply? 3yrs this has gone on. I want so much more. But i cant take it so i have no contact. But i am waiting for him to contact me. And ive got to be strong and ignore him. Cos im so lonely and want to feel secure.i stupidly think for him thinking hes back there missing me having a miserable time.going out with other women and realising they dont compare to me. Like i do. But if he did think that he would do anything wouldnt he to be with the one you love. Hes known as a womaniser he like attention and has slept with nearly 100 women some when we were only broke up wks! I dont think hes ready to give that part of his live up. But makes me believe and says we will be together in the long term and he knows it. Is it cos he know he has a good thing and if he says that, i wont get over him and find someone else and i will be there to hes ready to settle down! In the meantime he sleeps around then tells me noone compares to me! I say why arent u with me then? He trys to avoid the answer and says i think to much and ask to many questions!
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (4 August 2009):
 Because he knows that's what he needs to say in order to gain your favour again. He gets the pleasure of sleeping with random women and having the pleasure and ego boost of that, as well as having a devoted ex on the side who will be there waiting whenever he wants the girlfriend experience.“Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.”Stop wasting your time on this guy, repeating the same patterns over and over again isn't going to result in the happy ending you're after.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): This man is playing with your heart,head and life if he really truly loved you he would be with you and would not want to be without you,yet he is not with you he is sleeping with god knows how many other women and he knows when he gets knocked back he can always call on you,forget him move on and start enjoying life having fun just as he is.
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