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writes:Well my husband wants a boy toy for the both of us since I have been giving him a hard time about wanting to be with another woman I think he will still want another women in bed with us should I do anything about this? We did have a three some with another man and I was and he did nothing with the guy but he feels since I won't give him another womean he wants to be able to play with the other guy. He has been on a swing site and checks out everything should I be bothered by this? I really don't care for this stuff but he wants some thing fun and exciting for the both of us. we have been marrried for 30 years and been to gether he did cheat on me once about 12 years ago and he has made up for it. He now say's it was my fault he can see this because we are having some of the same problems from before when he cheating on me because I didn't give him enough attention I don't get it I guess I am not that giving as he is cause he is very giving so should I feel bad cause I don't want another woman in bed with us? He dosen't mind me with another man and him but I do mind him and another woman I am jealous and insecure maybe because he did cheat at one time I thought I got over it but I guess I didn't or I am just that jealous type. He say's I am only thinking of myself. But he's the one who wants me to be with another man and he likes it he say's because he like giving. I guess I shouldn't go there with another man but he get's up set when I don't want to do anything fun like swinging. I really have much more to say but I don't want to bore anyone please maybe someone could give me alittle help for thought?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): well swinging is only fun if you want it and enjoy it, not because your husband wants it.but as you have had a threesome involving another man, then naturally he will want the same with another woman.regardless of whether it is fair or not the bottom line is do not do anything you are not comfortable with.make sure he knows that you cannot handle him with another woman, and if he still is for a threesome with another man then so be it.
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