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writes:I have new boyfriend who is amazing. He's really cute to look at but for some reason he has just stopped turning me on and I dont know why. He tells me all the time he thinks Im sexy and always wants to make love but I just dont want to even though he is cute and fit with a great body. However, I do find other guys sexually attractive and often get aroused at the thought of having sex with them. What do I do. I really like this guy and we have great times together and I can tell he's really into our relationship. I really dont want to leave him, I know it would break his heart (and mine). Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): I had this problem but I dont really know what to tell you. For me it just kept getting worse and worse till I couldnt stand being with him like that. Two years it took me. He is really good looking but I had no interst in that way after a while. I guess we're better as friends. Theres no doubt in my mind that I loved him soo soo much. But it's really hard when you want to want him but just cant in that way. An alternative is you could try a break from that stuff and see if anything changes. Maybe you are just with him too much. Or maybe just cute isnt good enough and you want someone "hot." I dont know what others think but for me it didnt get better and I had to break it off. I couldnt fake it anymore. I still love him and he was perfect for me, but unfortunetly it wouldnt have worked no matter how much I wanted it to. Dont jump to conclusions though think about it, wait untill you are sure theres nothing you can do. Maybe wait for better advice, idk how good mine is
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