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One day he wants to leave me, and the next, wants to marry me! What am I supposed to believe?

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Question - (4 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2009)
A female Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Am I delusional?

He says he wants to marry me. He has seen a therapist for the names he calls me and is trying to stop. I am seeing a therapist because a few months ago the mean names and accusations drew me to a point of making an attempt at my life.

Things are supposed to be getting better. Most recently, the tirade is that I am unsupportive of the depression and difficult times he is facing due to unemployment. When he gets angry at life he takes it out on me and apologizes later. He says he wants to marry me every other day and on every day in between says that I am not the woman for him at this moment. My heart breaks every other day.

I am speechless. Out of words. Do not know which man I am supposed to believe - him when he wants to be with me or him when he doesnt want to be with me. I am too old for these games. Please help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

you should leave him because no one should put up with that ok

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