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writes:Well, this story might sound famliar to some of you.About a year ago, I met a girl at university. She's four years older than me, (she's 25. I'm 21). We got along very well, and stayed in touch after the school project was over in December.Last month, we had two dates together. Both were very nice, and everything went well. We kissed a lot on the second date. She looked and sounded very happy and, frankly, so was I.Then, form one day to the next, there was nothing. She doesn't return my phonecalls. I tried to ring her a few times over the course of a month, but she doesn't respond. I texted her two times (i don't like texting) but she doesn't respond to them, too.Last time i tried to contact het was a text message about two weeks ago. I was on holiday, and i said something like 'everything is great here and I miss you.' Of course: nothing.I'm deeply in love with this girl. I don't fall in love too often. I really want(ed) for things to work out between the two of us. What on earth happend? What did I do wrong? Thank's alot in advance!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): Thanks for the answers. I really like this girl. I don't fall in love that often. Deep down i still hope it'll work out in the long run. Though I know it won't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): You most likely didn't do anything "wrong" she just isn't into you. If a girl ignores that many calls and texts it means she doesn't want a relationship with you. i'm sorry. and i know that's a sucky way of finding it out. but girls can be mean. i have to admit i've done the same thing to a couple of diffent guys. we just figure eventually they'll catch on. my advice, is to move on and find someone else. (and no offense, but if all you've had is 2 dates and you're in "love" with her, you may have just come off too strong and scared her off)
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