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writes:Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months but he's not been wanting to have sex as much as he did.Whenever I want it he says not today (but not in an angry way) or 'Lets wait til another day' I dont get it because we're both 16, aren't boys suppose to be very interested in sex when they're this age?I know he loves me and he says that 'He doesnt want our relationship to be just about sex.'Opinions would be much appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionExcuse me, but I'm not pressuring him, we've done it before, I dont ask for it.. he just gets me turned on then says lets not do it today, which you have to admit is pretty frustrating.
And I definatly DONT pressure him into anything.
Thanks for the helpful advice guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): Dang, it seems like your the one thats thinking too much about sex! Give him some space, he is not just ready. Don't bug him into something he doesn't wanna do! My Gosh.
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reader, ewm0706  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 i had the same problem as of two years ago sometimes its fear of commitment like he knows it can back fire on him and if your relationship. doesnt go as well as thought sex can make him want to stay even more and not explore the new see he is being very smart guy you should be lucky because sex usually ruins the relationship. i should know dont have sex yet k mainly because he is totally dedicated to you but if you have sex and then things go bad its hard to let go but if things go bad anyway without sex it will be easier to move on
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (4 August 2009):
 Wanting sex is not the same thing as wants lots of it. I want a ferrari, but one is enough.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (4 August 2009):
 Hi there,
Well, sounds like you're guy is classier than most! If he's still showing you that he loves you and still is as into the relationship as he used to be, it could just be that he wants sex to feel special and wants to sometimes build a little anticipation for sex. Maybe he wants to get more romantic with you and spend more time courting you and THEN take it into the bedroom.
Why not spend more time going out on dates and just enjoying each other's company? It will bring you closer together and make the sex even more electric when it does happen.
I hope you're using protection! Safe sex is best sex!
Good luck, sweetness!
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