| He said he used me, what meassage should I get from this? |
| | Question - (4 August 2009) | 0 Answers - (Newest, ) | A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:dear cupid,I got deeply emotionally involved with a guy about 3 months ago. We were pretty much dating but he was about to leave to go to Japan for 2 months. I told him i wanted 2 wait til he got back 2 start something and he was ok with that. The 1st month he was there was good! We would talk 4 hours every day and he would tell me he needed me and missed me it was all true at the time no doubt about that. But then something suddenly changed. The 2nd month came and he just stopped caring like he wouldnt even bother trying 2 talk 2 me and something was wrong. I thought he was tryin 2 leave me so i made him talk 2 me. He explained he still loved me but he was just confused. When i asked y he was confused and sad he told me he was decieving me! I asked how and he said for a while hes been thinking w/ his penis not his brain so he was using me 4 a little while but he said he still loves me and he just doesnt want 2 b in a relationship right now. I understand that and Im ok with it but i didnt realize that the more he ignored me the less i trusted people not just him but every1... hes still acting weird and im almost positive he doesnt love me the same as b4. Well he is coming back either 2morrow or the next day.What is your view on this? What is the message that i should b getting from him? What does it all mean? Reply to this Question
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