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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My best friend and her sister have said some things about my mother that have really hurt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I had a best friend,whom i met in 1976.She lives in Tennessee with her sister and brother-in law. My mother passed this year in March.About a day later,my good friends'sister started to email me,with harsh statements about my mother.It hurt me even ...

How can I control my controlling behavior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - ok... i have a bad problem. ok im young like high school young and so is my bf! we have been together for almost 10 months and i really think that i love him and he loves me to! but my problem is that i am verry controlling and i dont like it w...

He lied about being a virgin when he met me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - i have a huge problem, i found out my boyfriend of 3months who i love so much lied about being a virgin when he met me. he said he had slept with 3 people before me one of them being a girl who he lives with in his student accommodation which i was ...

How do I get over emotional abuse when he blames me for his depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I really really need help. I was with my boyfriend for one month when he slipped into a state of depression - for six months. Almost two weeks ago he claimed to have felt like he 'snapped' out of it and I was hesitant to let myself trust tha...

I am not the only one who thinks that it is degrading to discuss your sexual experiences with your partner/husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hello everyone! I've got a question for the ladies here: do you tell your partners that you masturbate? What is their attitude? Is this topic off limits? The reason for me asking is oh my gosh here we come - my mother has gone through my thing...

He didn't tell me he had another child until after I had his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I've been engaged to my fiance for 2-3 years and we have a 1 year old son together. After I had our son in 07, a few months later, I found out he had another kid that was 11 years old at the time.I still want know why he hasn't told me anything ...

Should I forgive and forget and give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - well im 16, and i met this guy when i was about 12-13, we really really clicked and we started seeing eachother... since we went to different schools we didnt see as much of eachother as we liked and there was a period when were we didnt see ...

Revenge tips for me to hurt a guy's feelings.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - hi I wanted a boyfriend all my life since I was 18 years and now I am 30 and I have never been asked out once and a lot of the guys I liked rejected me for someone who they find more sexually attractive than me. After all the rejection and hu...

How can I find out if she's cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I think my girlfriend is cheating on me she tells me she doesn't want sex as much because we are not all about that, I ask her what she's doing quite a lot and she says "why do you always need to know what I'm doing?" I've asked her quite a few ti...

We always argue over the silliest things... why?

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8 December 2008 (F) - Well, I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we are sort if a strong couple. The thing is we always argue over silly things, for example. He stood outside his house for 5 mins with his ex so he says, If I dont meet him he will fall out...

WHY do men cheat on women???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I want to first say a big thanks to all the house members here, I think my problem is really getting to be solved soon.. My girl is now at the point of forgiving me, but still one more thing to get solved, I sent mail that I cheated on my girl, now ...

How can I stop my mom running my life?

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8 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been in contact for 3 years. We started dating in our country before he moved to Paris.In our country,he would call me everyday,see me every week because my mom wanted that way.Alhough my mom and my sister let us see each ...

How can I undo what I did and get their friendship back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I liked a guy in college. I got jealous of my best friend and told my other best friend to kinda spy on her because she was talking with that guy. I deeply regret it. They are not talking to me now. Please tell me what to do please....

I'm starting to fall for him... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I'm a 36 year old just out of a long-term (13 years) relationship, but it's complicated as we're still living together with our toddler son as I'm at uni for the next year and seeing as we're best friends it is easy to stay in this situation. ...

How can I tell my friend I know about the lies she's been spreading?

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8 December 2008 (F) - I have this friend of mine whom we shared our problems together very unfortunately she used my problem as a bridge to make my man notice her. When I told her my problem she promised to have the word with my man. Unfortunately she told my man that ...

My boyfriend is showing me inconsistant affection alternating with abuse

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Im at a dead end, and am so confused on what to do. Im pregnant and am living with my boyfriend who is the father. We both want the baby. The thing is he is being so nasty towards me, he will call me names make me feel like trash and overreacts over ...

I need advice on how to leave this man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - hi i have been in a 11 year on and off relationship with the most abusive man alive!!! i did not fall in love with this person i fell in love with a good man. n e ways i had left him so many times in the past and am sick of all the lies cheating and ...

She is extremely depressed, I became emotionally drained due to our problems... HELP.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - To whom may have advice, Let me begin with some background information I met my girlfriend (who I have been dating for over four years) in college. The first year was amazing (the first time I ever though about marriage) but after that it was a ...

Was I too young, was I actually raped?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Well..during the summer this past summer I lost my virginity to who is now my ex boyfriend..But I was only 14 and I wanted to know if that was a little to early...Also my other thing is..I never told him I was ready and i never told him to ...

We are scheduled to get married, do you think we are ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - my fiance just got back from iraq. he had been there a year. when he left we had been fighting and had been seperated. he came back 10 days before he left for iraq when our son was born. he is back but now wants to pretend like he never left me when ...

I don't know if I want to start a life with him, if she is going to get in the way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - My boyrfriend and I have been together now for about five years, I am 24 and he is 25. We are pretty serious about eachother. Since he was 17 my boyfriend has been living with a woman named Claire. Claire, is his ex- girlfriends' mother. At first...