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Archived questions from: 1 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Feeling Lost -sorry for the length

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I seem to be troubled with my g/f and mostly our sex life. We've been together for almost 8 years and just had our second child. I love her very much and thought about marriage several times. We had great sex were both of us were satisfied. ...

How can I give him confidence so that he'll kiss me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 year. He's great, the relationship is great, and we have our problems like everyone else. But over the last year he's become less... affectionate, for lack of better word. He'll hug me and all ...

All I want is to be able to have her half the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Well here it is. Me and my girlfriend of 5 years had a baby last year. She just turned 1 last week. For a while had been using meth. My girlfriend found out about 4 months ago. In a way I thank god she did or I would morelikely still be using. But ...

My GF cheated on me with another girl and hasn't told me! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - I'm 25 years old and have been dating my girlfriend for almost 5 and a half years. I just found out that she slept with her friend, another female. We "took a break" last week for less than 24 hours then she came back to me saying she was s...

Help me with these feelings of guilt over my rebound boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Please help me deal with these feelings of hurt, doubt, guilt, anxiety. I told my rebound relationship today that I have just realised we are moving to quickly and I think we should put the breaks on because I have just realised I am not over my ...

How do I confront my GF about a sketchy e-mail to her ex I discovered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - How do I confront my girlfriend about an sketchy email she sent to her ex that I discovered? I had a feeling my girlfriend was talking to her ex so I checked her email on her phone and sure enough there was a email sent to him. It really struck h...

He controlled, abused, and manipulated, now is angry, because he doesn't know where you live, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - why does a person that has abused, manipulated and controlled you not like it when they dont know where you are living anymore?...

He abused me and I left, now he wants me to come back, and help pay the rent as agreed, what should I do?l

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. Our relationship has been nothing but a rollar coster of emotions. We just moved into our own place which was probably the first mistake I made.(i think) Well as soon as we got all our things into our new ...

Found my husband in bed with his best male friend, what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - [they continued to have sex in your face after you caught them?????????hard to believe? - other mods, what do you think??i'll leave this as it is, please pay attention at the detail I pointed] I'm 31, from the United Kingdom, and my husband'...

I don't want to be with some one who doesn't love me or doesn't want to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfirend for all most 2 years now but she never has the time of day for me, whenever I try to get to see her she always "says" she working but I ask all the time every day and she still says they ask them first when one day I ...

My boyfriend isn't calling/texting...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Thanks for anyone spending the time to answer my question. I'm 17 and I'm dating an 29 soon to be 30 year old guy. I'm in college , so this takes away the "still living with my parents" factor Nobody knows about our realtionship. If my parents ...

Do I wait 6 months to get back with ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - My ex broke up with me 6 months ago, won't go into detail, but it wasn’t because he didn’t love me, but because he thought at the time we wanted different things. He has just contact me and apologised for being stubborn and said he feels really bad ...

How to improve a relationship that is falling apart due to unbelievable stress and hard times

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I would like someone to tell me how to fix a relationship with my partner thinks that I am the one to start every argument. He has not noticed any of the things that I have improved upon in our relationship, and he thinks that he has changed ...

I don't want to hurt anybody.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hello This is going to be very detailed. Hope you'll bear with it. I met this guy online from a dating site and we hit it off immediately as we seemed to have the same values and good chemistry. He was 30 and eager to settle down (according ...

I just want to feel happiness and it seems I can't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I have been having so many thoughts go through my head its unbelievable. The thing that has been the worst is my mood swings. One minute I'm happy and the next I just want to cry I'm so upset. Growing up I always had someone putting me down. And now ...

Will my broken heart even be mended and will I ever find anyone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I was once at the peek of my life, had friends, had a GF who i loved and respected. life was great until 1 day my ex turns round to me and tells me that she never really loved me and the only reason she ever went out with me was because ...

How can I detach myself from my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for 8 months. we were friends before that for 9 months. lately i've been getting so attached that i've been getting mad at him. one, because i want to be with him all the time. I told him a few times i didnt want him to go ...

Why did he try so hard to hurt me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Why did he try so hard to hurt me? I can't figure it out. I am trying to understand this maliciousness when he was so wonderful for 2 years? We broke up mutually and limited contact with each other, and texted about him getting his things (whic...

My boyfriend says his priority is his drinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend says his priority is his drinking, i'm expected to buy all household items, baby items. i'm surprised he gives me half for the babysitter. he recently lent me 30 dollars because i needed to buy OUR daughter a thanksgiving outfit, the ...

What is the solution to an addictive, negative relationship, I don't need to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - What do you do when you're addicted to someone who is obviously bad for you? My boyfriend has hurt me over and over and over but I always take him back. I let him know in clear terms what he did was wrong and I won't tolerate it anymore and then I ...

Do I break it off with him, and follow my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Hi. Well rhe story is my boyfriend who has on occasion because of drink and drug problems hit me and been very aggressive. Due to my loyalty towards him as he was a friend and I helped him of off heroin, I can't seem to leave him to self destruct. ...

In a mess with my ex... I want to be with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

1 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i just broke up last week. We had been going out for a year and a half and everything was perfect until about a month ago. She told me she wasnt sure if she wanted a relationship. We took sometime apart but didnt break up, after a ...

I think he's going to propose and I'm worried...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (16) and I (15) have been dating for 6 months now. We love each other SO much and we love being together. We're compatible in every way but... I think he's going to propose. He's been talking about it the last 2 weeks and I'm getting ...

His Myspace is set to private and he won't let me see it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now, he has a myspace and I don't, I can't stand the website. He has his myspace set to private and I cannot see it, I am a jealous person and I can't stand it. I don't know what goes on. ...

Is My Friend Being Used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

1 December 2008 (F) - I have an aquaintance, a 51 year old guy, who in my opinion is being made a fool of. 3 years ago His wife of 25 years left him for his best friend. He met a woman around his age shortly after. They have been on and off for about 3 years.... it's alw...