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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I move on from being in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - This is the first time ive done this so please bare with me. Im 27 yrs old, im currently married, have been for 6 and a half years and i have 2 kids. For a little over a year my husband and I have had our ups and downs and I suffer from depression. ...

He forgot my birthday again! Should I continue with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend forgot my birthday for the second time. We have been dating for about 3years now. Distance has always been a problem but it is so torturing and painful that for the second time, I had to remind him again and all he could say was work...

Why is he suddenly giving me the silent treatment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Why have I been receiving the silent treatment? This guy friend I have has been recently talking to me alot through texting, talking online, hanging out quite a bit and we have fooled around in the past and recently because of our attraction. I...

Should I marry her even though I am not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I know a girl who had a BIG crush on me during pre-undergrad days, when most boys in class were after her :-). I used to like her too, but we never expressed our liking to each other, and were just 'friends'. Later I moved to a diff college to ...

My husband loves me, I know he does but he can't say it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - my husband and i have been together for 7 years, married for 6. i love him with everything in me, he is my world. i know he loves me too, and we have a decent sex life and all of that, but he REFUSES to compliment me. this is something we've been ...

If I could back in a time machine..I cheated on my girlfriend and I'm sick

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - You never really know what you got till its gone....and its soo true. Here's my story, I started dating this girl named Amanda in high school I was 18 and she was sixteen. It started out as a typical teen relationship however I just got out of an 8 ...

My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Hello all, I'm in such a deliemma with my boyfriend, I always feel like he cares more about himself that he des me. When we have sex, we dont really do much foreplay, well thats to say its not returned. I do things to him but he wont do anything ...

I've ruined our relationship many times but I still want him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - ive ruined every relationship ive ever had and now ive lost the one guy i love and i have true feelings for.. we have been on and off for ages.. but everytime we get together i jeopardize it! I break his heart and i just cant do that to him any ...

Why does he flirt with me when he says he doesn't want me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, This is about my ex bf, basically he dumped me nearly 2 months ago, anyway, we talk on the phone most days, see each other most days, just like when we where going out, Anyway, i still have feelings for him and he knows it, we whe...

No lust for g/f but I want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Hiya, I'm in a relationship at the moment which is coming up to two months. We've been PERFECT with each other up till now when the other week my partner's grandmother passed away and she had to go away to the funeral and she was gone for about a ...

Her husband knows about us and she still won't leave him! I'm in agony!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - I am from INDIA. Let me make an honest confession. Sheer frustration has prompted me to write this. I am a married man aged 48 years. I am in love with my cousin brother’s wife since last 4 years. She is 34. Has a girl child aged 7 yr. Her husband ...

I'm clearly unhappy, my fiance sees this but why can't he just let me go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Im clearly unhappy, my fiance see's this but why cant he just let me go? My life is pathetic! There is this man who I had loved soo much and now well, I will always have love for him. I live around his world. I have his friends, I see his family...

My boyfriend said I was a show off and hasn't talked to me in a week!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and me went to this summer fair (I live in Australia) and we stated playing this ball ball game when you knock down milk bottles. He was horrible at it, he couldn't make a shoot. I didn't want he waste his money, so I grab the last ball ...

The ex who hurt me used to be my best friend. Why did he play these games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - dear cupid, i need your help. robert and i met my sophomore year of high school. we were very close for two years. he was my best friend. we loved to talk and hang out. he had the biggest crush on me and i knew it but i didn't feel the same so i ...

I was molested as a child, please help me, never told anyone besides my dad who didn't lift a finger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My older brother molested me as a kid, then when I was 11 my cousin who was 19-20 molested me, at christmas. I told my father about my cousin and he did nothing. I resent my father so much for not helping me. My step-father always helps me no ...

My sister's boyfriend steals and gets drunk, I'm so worried about her!

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20 December 2008 (?) - I dont like my sister's (she's 14) boyfriend (he's 17 my age) because he gets drunk at a parties and he smokes. Also he shoplifts, he even has a criminal record for it. So you can understand why Im getting a bad vibe around him. The guy is a total ...

We broke up and now I'm confused about how he hugged me and acted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. In the beginning of the week we met up so i can get my closure. We talk, cried, yelled and hugged a lot. The hugs lasted long and when i tried to pull away he wouldn't really let me. He also ...

I hit my fiance and now I know why women have trouble with men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - My fiance and I had an argument n i became very irritated that it lead to me socking him on his back and then when he turned around i socked him in his jaw..it was good n hard..I mean, it felt good but den i felt bad afterwards..ahahhahahahhaha..is ...

He loves me but doesn't care if we aren't physical?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - i have been dating this boy for almost a yr. and 4 months and i'm kinda confused. He always says he wouldn't mind if we never kissed or did anything physical. In fact he only kisses me because he knows that's what i want. I know i should be ...

I only like sex when I'm drunk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Ok I like sex, it's great fun, feels good and so on, but the thing is, I only feel like I can do it whilst drunk. If I'm sober, I don't know, I just feel as if I cant, like slightly I don't have the confidence in a way. It's not a comfortability ...

Will we ever be happy, and will she ever stop punishing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) - Well, I dont really know where to start, because there is a lot of issues and things regarding my story which covers the last 2 years. Well anyway, to try and keep it simple... I met my partner 7 years ago, I was 20 and she was 17. We had never...

I am so confused. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. Up until recently we broke up but we are still messing around. We have always been able to talk about anything. Since the death of both his grandmother and uncle he seems to change up....like ...

Is he avoiding me? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

20 December 2008 (F) - Well, I have a crush with a guy for the last 2 years in which we communicate by email since we met in person. I don't like to send a bunch of messages b/c he might think I'm clingy and stuff. We talk on the phone once a month. We talked on Tuesda...