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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Help!!!! I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we are extremely close. he is honestly my best friend. Just recently he got his phone and computer taken away because he failed chem with a really low grade like in the 50s. His parents are ...

Was I too hard on her after our argument?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

17 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend's mom didn't want her when she was 1 years old. She had foster parents after foster parents. She's a bit sensitive about it. Well one day we had this huge fight about me working too and not spending enough time with her. Then ...

Since I had the baby he doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I am starting to get worried about the emotional/ sexual relationship between my boyfriend and i. We just had a baby boy and i was sure that our sex life would change, that something would happen! but there is still no sex what so ever... i am ...

He comes bringing up his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Even though my boyfriend says he loves me and lives with me I still find myself wondering why he keeps comparing me to his ex. He says things like "she was fat, i'm happy you're not" "oh its so nice you don't watch so much t.v, she always did", ...

Is it over because I screwed up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I have been involved in a long distance relationship for a little over a year. Everything has been fine until recently. She was studying for finals and informed me not to try to reach her until it was over, due to her busy schedule. She would ...

She is treating their dog like their kid, calling him about meeting for visitation etc saying he doesn't spend enough time with it. ITS A DOG!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - My BF's divorce will be final in a month - no kids. His is complaining that his ex is not accepting their divorce. She asked about Xmas eve and xmas being with him and his family and she got upset when he said he made other plans. She said it was ...

I'm a party girl and he's cramping my style!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I need help people, ive been with my present boyfriend for over a year now, i left my ex of 4 and a half years to be with my present boyfriend, but problem is he isnt the guy i fell in love with, his attitude has totally changed and he says he was ...

I don't want to break her heart but I want out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - i am 20 i have been with her for almost two years now and i am beginning to like other girls but she says she is IN love with me. i dont want to break her heart but i dont want to keep going on like everything id okay. any ideas anyone?...

She's been abused and has mood swings, but I want to help her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I am having trouble dealing with a friend who is recovering from an abusive relationship. And I am asking "What do I do next?" I am at wit's end and ready to give up... but I love her and don't want her to fall back into a bad situation. I ...

I'm getting a very short fuse from his depression/insecurities

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I will keep this brief. I met a man who, over time, I fell deeply in love with. He then went through a stint of depression that was very taxing on the relationship. As he comes out of this difficult time in his Life, he is needier and more ...

2 months and no "I love you"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and i have been together now for two months. He treats me really nice and i feel very lucky to have him in my life. Tee problem is that he has said he really likes me and has feelings for me and misses me when i am away. bu...

Pic on internet leads to his confession-he doesn't know if he wants ex or me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Hey Readers, First of all thanks for reading this. I am probably in the worst state of shock, pain, and confusion that I have ever been in in my life! Here it goes...I used to date a great guy, we'll call him guy 1. I thought he was my future ...

Airing my "dirty laundry" because I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with the father of my child for 5 out of the 6 years we've known each other. It has been a hard five years in all honesty. In 2006 he left me because he said that we weren't compatible. During that time he dated a ...

Allowed to stay for a couple of hours then home by myself on the train while fiance stays!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Could you please help me! I am going to my fiance's works night out, but he's only allowing me to stay for a couple of hours! He said I have to get the train home myself while he stays at his friend's house. I think he has plasnned to meet up when ...

Lost in relationship confusion and broke, too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am going through a difficult time with my boyfriend of 13 years. Essentially, he bullies me about money. He took me off of the joint account we had 4 years ago and it has been nothing but trouble since. We have bills together...

I know my partner is going to have to make a choice but I just don’t know what to do any more and her father simply scares me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for the last 2 years and we both are having problems but we are trying to sort thing out and at present we both seem to be making a good go of it. We have a 1 year old son between us and my partner has a 2 and a half year ...

I never feel like I'm someone special to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I need help, I am in a LD relationship and have been engaged for a little less than a year. Before we made it official I would text and email her every day and even phoned her occasionally but she rarely did the same. It never bothered me at the ...

We've ran out of things to talk about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I have a serious problem. I’ve been with my first girlfriend for seven months now and I’ve been very happy. However she feels that we do not talk enough about different things. I myself have never been a big talker and was always the type of person ...

Is he just playing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - hi there i need help, am now in a foreign country studying where i meet this other boy also from my country studying,we fall in love with each other,that we we sometimes talk of getting married but there is a HUGE problem.he explained to me that ...

I'm pregnant my boyfriend is an asshole!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4665 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - Im having a baby and my boyfriend treats me like shit and i do everything for him yes i will yell sometimes but not all the time but i do everything i can and more and he will be the biggest asshole to me but i love him and i dont know what to do i ...

My love is fading

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - im 21 yrs old and i have a boyfriend we been together for about 3 yrs and we have a 5 month old son, he is the first and only boyfriend i ever had,lately im been questioning my love for him, dont get me wrong i do love him but its not a strong ...

My girlfriend hates my friend should I distance myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Here's one for you. Firstly, I'd like you to read this situaion, and tell me what you think. There is a girl I know. When we see each other, we hug, perhaps kiss on the cheek, are really friendly with one another. I call her gorgeous, or...

Married just because I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - About three weeks ago I took a pregnancy test that came back positive. My ex and I broke up about 9 months ago after dating for 3 years. We still see each other at least once a month and generally spend a couple of days together. Now that I'm ...

He treated me very badly, we broke up, I still love him, he drove by my house four times, what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend because he cheated and he was starting to treat me bad. I didnt want to break up but it was hurting me so much. when i broke up with him he acted like he didnt care. i was crying so much and he didnt even do anything ...

My roommate is straight with a girlfriend. I'm gay, I love him, we make out, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - Ok so here we go.. I'm gay and all my friends and most of my coworkers know it. I have one straight room mate and about 8 months ago my straight room mate asked me to give him a massage and it turned into more then that. At the time i thought ...

Do I leave her? Do I fight for her? Am I just lonely and find our relationship comforting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

17 December 2008 (M) - I am a married man of 11 years with two children under 9 years. My wife and I are on the verge of a divorce and are waiting until after the holidays and figuring out the logistics of the house, finaces and child care. Nine months ago I met a younger ...

Who's right? Me or Him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - ok well about a month or two ago, my boyfriend (almost a year) went to the dentist, but when he came back to school a few days later, i was holding his phone for him, and i got a message from his homeboy, who was right infront of me, then it comes ...

What's going on with his behavior?

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17 December 2008 (F) - ive been seeing a guy for about 2 months now. everything was going well, untill about a week ago really..nothing bad happened..i just didn't see him cause he said he was ill. i went round to see him tonight and things were ok..we were getting on ...

Is she with me for what she can get out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

17 December 2008 (F) - hi iim really mixed up about my relationship.i am a lesbian, i have been with my girlfriend for 6 yrs. we dont live together as i had a flat before we met. an she had house with her two grown up daughters. whenever i go there its like if she dont ...