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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I deal with my brother's horrid girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I think my brothers girlfriend is horrid to him. they were together for 5 months when she came to live with us in my mum n dads house, and id just had my baby at the time. she didnt have a job or any income, and didnt pay board to my mum, but she ...

My boyfriend and I got in an argument and now he won't respond to me!

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21 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, i really need your help, it was recently my boyfriends birthday we went out and he constantly told me he loved me like he always does, we were very sreious about eachother he told me i was the only one for him but the next day i went to ...

Can I keep this a secret and still be a good girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Please try not to judge me. This is my first relationship and I've made tons of mistakes. We've been together for two years and almost 4 months, and I love him. He is the jealous type. He has issues with my past. My past is not at all crazy, but w...

My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

21 December 2008 (?) - My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE (I'm 5 months pregnant) as in the song. I honestly hate that name for a boy (and for a girl). He won't change his mind about it. I think he just is stressed about being a dad. ...

We finally become initimate and I want to throw it all away for no reason, why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I have a problem with staying with people after we become intimate. I met this guy and he is really cute and nice and everything that I say I want and we finally become initimate and I want to throw it all away for no reason, everything was great, ...

Should I be concerned that he doesn't like me any more, or that he just doesn't want to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - The guy I'm seeing, went shopping with this girl who is in fact going with another girl, but when they got back from shopping she tried it on with him, he said that nothing happened and all that did happen was that she just sat on him, apparently ...

How can anybody accuse you of cheating when he cheated me by not giving 100% and he thinks this is okay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My long term partner recently ended it with me as he is convinced I cheated on him just because I spoke to a guy a few times I once knew, I never ever cheated on him, had no reason to. The thing that bothers me is that he never put 100% into us he ...

What can we do to save our marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I really need some opinion on this case. My husband is impotent with me at the last fews years. He has no desire, and finally when we try to have sex he stays soft. But not because he is MEDICALLY SICK... He had all the medical check ups, he is no...

I'm caught in the middle between two wonderful women that I have feelings for.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - You've read it before. The typical man is married/engaged/in a relationship and befriends a coworker, where feelings start to develop. My situation: I'm happily engaged with my fiance, but have been getting to know a coworker more in depth. ...

Does his silence mean something has happened with his ex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I started dating a guy about a month before everyone went away home from university for Christmas. Before he went we were lying in bed and I asked him if he was looking forward to go home and seeing his family, and he said he didn't know because ...

Should I settle for my boyfriend of 3 years who has been abusive and has a bad anger problem.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Should I settle for my boyfriend of 3 years who has been abusive and has a bad anger problem. We were living together and I just kicked him out a couple of months ago cuz he tried to choke me at home while my kids were home, luckily they didn't see ...

Will we be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i been seein this guy for a week now yes i know a week is not long but its nearly to weeks anyways his mum has had it tuff with her husband cheatin on her n leavin her n she decided its easier to run away.anyways he then tells me he is leavin at the ...

Tell him how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - dont know if i should tell him - IF it comes up. I tried to speak to him about how i feel, he's confusing me so much. But he thinks im trying to say "extreme things to get his attention" which couldn't be further from the truth. When i said i ne...

He's acting different is something wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Im confused about my boyfriend, I dont know what to do...I have this feeling...my chest hurts...I think somethings wrong with us on Thursday I was sitting beside him while he was on his laptop. some girl got on MSN and messaged him saying 'I th...

He ignores me and makes me unhappy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i am dating this guy. he said he is too busy with work to have time for a serious relationship. anytime i visit him, he doesnt write or call to know if i got home okay. not only that he doesnt write at all for 3weeks. after the 3 weeks i write him ...

He's looking for a wife, and I havnt told him hes my dream guy yet :S

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - What do I do What do I do What do I do?... I fell in love with him in 9th grade, he spoke to me in my freshmen year of college we've talked ever since (5 years now) we've shared love sexually and intellectually but we never dated. I always kept a c...

Living with a heroin addict--how do I get out of this life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Hi i am new to this site and in need of help! i pretty much already know i am a co-dependant person, i always have been i think .it developed young from growing up in an abusive home but i have 3 teenage children and am living with a heroin addict ...

I can't get closure in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I recently became involved with a guy that I was at college with 3 years ago. When we got back in contact several months ago, we became very close and he admitted that he had strong feelings for me when we knew each other before, and that these ...

On and off... why is this happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Hi: I am not sure where to start. About 2 years ago I met this guy online. I wasn't looking to flirt or make a relationship, it was more of a social site. We both were in long-distance relationships at the time, and we started talking. One thing le...

I'm the adventurous type and he sits at home surfing the Web and also drinks, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I am a 42 yr old female and I know it sounds funny but I am very confused about what I want to do .I am seeing this man that is very sweet but he has a problem with drinking .When he drinks it is very scary .I love him but I dont however wish to ...

If he was in love with me then how can he talk like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few days ago. And I don't really know what to think. This is a short summery of what has happened: A few weeks before my birthday (my birthday is oct. 10th), (let's call him) Dave (bf) had been tex...

Are these symptoms of being abused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i don't know what to do. this is confusing and i dont even know but i need some support from people so I dont feel bad. It is such a long story but i'll make it short. my ex will not get rid of his ex. I think has abused me financially, sex...

How can I get them to accept me and not see me as a bad person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had been together now for 2 years and we have a 4 month old baby. we are currently living in his family's house it's quite big so they decided to move us in since they will be supporting us financially. his family doesn't ...

Why do I feel sad instead of moving on? He was abusive and violent.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Confused, I've been with my off and on again boyfriend for 3yrs who is violent and abusive.just two months ago he tried choking me the 2nd incidents of many.I kicked him out and we tried making it work. Needless, to say I'm a single mom with 2boys ...

Sometimes I feel like I'm dying with this married life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - Dear…friends I am ARI, Male 25, working for a telecom company. And I apply for Australia, hope so soon I will migrate there. I have a kid of 1year. My wife……. When I 1st offered love that time I didn’t see her cause I meet her online then tal...

He's convinced that I'm cheating on him. Does anyone have any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says im not tight anymore like I used to be. So he calls me a slut and horror cause he says im cheating. Its really sad actually cause I dont go anywhere EVER and i'm always with him if im not at work, so he says im doing it a work ...