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Archived questions from: 4 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My anxiety issues are destroying my life and my relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hello I have some issues that I would like someone to give me an advice, I am a 27 years old woman, I have a wonderfull career and a wonderfull job and the best guy as a boyfriend. My problem is that I have been in this country for one year, an...

I'm stressed from constantly being rejected because I am not sexy enough to be a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi 29 yaers no boyfreind ever and never being kissed may be i am not girlfreind material and what girlfreind material i don,t know? ilike guys who find me sexual attractive so i am left on the shelf but other girls are girlfreind .why do some guy...

I'm not so worried about the marriage and kids part, but not wanting to live with me feels like an insult!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I'm 28yrs and my boyfriend of 3 years is 39. We've had our up and downs for over a year since he told me he doesnt want to re-marry, have any more kids or even live together! He says he's found his freedom and enjoys his own company now. Our ...

She told me she would frequently hook up with her girlfriends and fool around with other guys!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Alright, well earlier today my girlfriend told me something that has been eating at me a fair bit. We only started dating about a month ago, and for close to a year before that she wasn't seeing any guys, wasn't interested in seeing guys, etc...

When a guy is checking out big boob porn, what is he thinking of his small chested GF?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - When a guy is watching a porno with big breasted women, what is he thinking in that moment if his girlfriend has small boobs? What about afterwards? When they are watching, do they wish they could squeeze, lick and just play with big breasts? Do ...

Whats wrong with our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Hey guys I think my relationship is failing and I really need some advice on how to fix it. We have been dating 15 months now and it has been great, After about 12 months things just started to get repetitive...We can barely text each other now we ...

Is this just an excuse in case he backs out of the divorce before it's final?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - My BF of a few months thinks I'm being jealous and moody. His divorce will be final in 2 months, no kids. I get upset because I bring him everywhere with me, invite him everywhere and introduce him and he never does. He thinks its too soon and is ...

My boyfriend and I have the perfect relationship.. except I'm wondering if he might be abusive.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Okay, this is really hard for me to ask, and I really need some outside advice and opinions. My boyfriend and I are pretty much the ideal couple. I'm not just saying that, we really are. We would never lie to each other, we are best friends, we...

How do I turn the tables on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend seems to have control of everything in our relationship. yes I do realize its because I've allowed him to but now its is like I don't even know myself anymore... how can I fix this? I can I show him that I'm strong and that I'm not ...

How do we get her to see the truth about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - My Sister In Law is in a terrible relationship with a guy who has been in prison twice, has a history of cheating, stealing, and lying. She is almost obsessed with him and now they are talking about getting married in less than 3 weeks. We have ...

How can I break his heart into tiny little pieces?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Hey I'd really like a male perspective on my problem but would also appreciate female feedback as well... I've been in an on and off again realtionship with my daughter's father, during one of our "breakups" he decided to go and have another ...

I felt my uncle was getting too "cosy" with me... now they want me over for Xmas but don't know if I should!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I was visiting my aunt and uncle for thanksgiving. My uncle was very happy to see me. When I was coming out of the room, he came in and wanted to ask me something. So after we talked, he wanted a hug, so I gave him one. Then he pulled my face ...

He proposed, that we break off the engagement and he move out. But that we still continue dating!!

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4 December 2008 (F) - I'm at a real loss here -- My fiance' and boyfriend of the past 6 years has said he'd like to break off our wedding. We currently live together, and have for the majority of our 6 year relationship. Last December, seemed like the make or break mo...

Is love a one shot deal? I feel like I'm losing him and there's nothing I can do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, the first year of our relationship was rocky to say the least as he had something traumatic occur in his life that consequently made him unable to be close to anyone and he kind of just blocked me ...

How do I bring balance to this relationship and this girl I so love and adore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Gawd...can someone give me some decent advice? I'm 35 and am seeing this beautiful girl that I absolutely love and adore. We've been seeing eachother for almost a year and we've had a lot of ups and downs, primarily arguing about stupid stuff. ...

I saw my sister naked, now I can't look her in the face!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - im22yrs boy.. i have one elder sister.. one day she came form bathroom in naked.. she tought not one in home.. but i was there.. i seen her body fully naked.. now im feeling very shy to see her face..help me.....

Is it worth ringing him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Is it worth ringing him? Any advice would be appreciated! - I'm in love with a guy who definitely is in control of our relationship! - He only rings when he can or it's convenient for him, he only sees me when he is available to do so and he onl...

Since his stroke my man has become intolerant of my kids

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - He cannot find love for my kids! I have been living with this man for over four years. Everything was great til he had a stroke at the age of 44in June of 2007. Since then he has had no tolerance what so ever for my girls 11 and 6. They cannot e...

I love him too much to walk away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - ok i have a very serious and heartbreaking situation. ive been with my fiance for almost a year and the first like 3 or 4 months we were always happy we never fought. but now it seems like that all we do right now. he is in a halfway house and can ...

Doubts over long distance relationship....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - For the past month or two I have been having serious doubts about whether to proceed with my long distance relationship of 3 years. I used to feel like there was no doubt that this man was my soulmate and we'd both look forward to our future ...

What should I do next? And what steps can I take to finally move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - 7 months ago the love of my life left me after 4 years together. We were just a couple of kids when we met, I'm 21 now but I was only 16 when we met he was 17, we grew up together you could say and were like two peas in a pod, completely ...

I have done wrong, please help me fix this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I have been in a wrong relation for last 3 years. Please read my story and guide me.i was working in a company. I had huge crush on my MARRIED coworker. He also used to flirt with me. Once he asked to hug and kiss me. I denied becoz i wanted to keep ...

He's had over 50 sexual relations?!?!?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year now. I have fallen in love with him and completely have devoted myself and my life to him. BUT-- Just a day ago, I found out before he knew me he had taken part in over 50 sexual r...

Is he seeing someone else? Should I just forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi there l need help. l don't know if my boyfriend is seeing somebody else we have been dating for 2 months sometimes he doesn't call for say 3 days and then after that he calls saying he misses me.we meet and everything is normal but yest...

My partner of 15 years is treating me like, well, sh*t... please advise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - My partner of 15 years who I love and very much do everything for like a 50's house wife treats me like shi.... I am in my late 30's and he is in his 60's. When I ended up in Sept this year having a brake down and I had to live on our boat for ...

She thinks we should break up, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - Have been in relationship with alady for about 10yrs. we haven't had sex tog' and recently i fail to communicate with her for about 3wks and she call saying that may be i am comparing here with someone else or am thinking smthng else or may be Gods ...

He told me that if I ever talk to him again, he is going to call the police.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I've asked this question before, but didn't go into a lot of detail. So here is my situation... I've liked this guy for 5 years now. Anywhoo, I knew him from high school. (back in the day) We knew of each other, but never spoken. Until.....

The girl I loved betrayed me and now I'm lost. How do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - I got out of a 1 1/2 year relationship 3 months ago and I feel like crap. My ex told me she fell in love with someone else she worked with and didn't love me anymore, and she hid this from me for a couple months prior to our split. This was ...

Love is found at the strangest times, I need help....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - OK People this is deep and I need help. This will be made into a Novel one day, so don't be surprised. I am 37 years old, I have had more than my share of realtionships, both good and bad. But this one has me going in a whole different state I ...

My best friend has been making sexual comments to my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - My best freind has been hiting on my girlfreind an making sexual comments towrds her. she complained to me bout it and i don like it when he does (he does it right in front of me) i told him to knock it off and he got totaly pissed at me, what ...

I like him a lot and I'm in love with him but I'm scared of people judging me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - well i like this guy lot and i dont feel right being with him iam afraid that pepole will judge me and he said he wants to marry me and have kids with me and hes going to ask me to marry him on chrismas and i dont know what to do he treats me right ...

How do I deal with this and regain the trust between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - hi everyone, i hope someone here can help me, im with a man for a over a year now, when we first started dating he was going through a messy breakup with his ex of five years, 2 months on and they had finally parted ways. he put his house on the...

Does he just have cold feet because our relationship is serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 13 months and we are best friends and we never had a fight. We have so much in common we snowboard, surf and hang out all the time.... he just said to me he needs some space, and I dont know how to take it.. so ...

Was I wrong when I said what I said? How can I fix things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

4 December 2008 (M) - H, i'm in a kinda weird situation and i need ur opinion on what i should do. we've been friends since high school and now we go to the same college. we kinda have a good thing going on for us. we kissed one time and we've been hanging out lots. we ...