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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did he chose me only because I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend had a crush on someone else when we started seeing each other. he never told me, but i found out from mutual friends of theirs that he had feelings for her, and that he had told her so, shortly after we got together. i had asked him ...

Unhappy marriage-in love with a married woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I was a married man for 8 years. I have been having trouble with my marriage for 6 years. My wife was abusive physically and verbally. I stayed with her for the kids (that’s what I kept telling myself). I compare our relationship to others ...

Should we try to get custody like his family wants, or give up on this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - My husband's ex girlfriend and him had a daughter 4 years ago. He pays child support but never gets to see her or if he does get to see her the women takes the child away if he doesn't do what she wants. "Takela"(we'll call his ex) is never with ...

A confused male, a tricky situation: Seeking wisdom!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I’m not very good at this.. (thus your collective wisdom will be appreciated) To make matters worse I’m not sure if I’m going to do good job of explaining this but… here goes… It’s a typical rubbish male story. I am seeing someone no...

My husband is hitting on men! Is he gay??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I'm 26, my husband's 28. We've been married for 6 months, and are well-liked locally. We like socializing, and do it fairly frequently. However, there's one problem which is affecting our marriage badly. He's flirting. Not with other women t...

I can't handle my girlfriends past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I am a 26 year old guy and am in relationship with a 24 year old girl.I am deeply troubled by her sexual past. My girlfriend is a caring,lovely person,she is highly emotional and friendly person. My girlfriend was molested multiple times by her uncl...

Too angry & too aggressive!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - i have an anger issue . i get angry really fast and shout at my boy friend. he hates it . i tend to be very aggressive some times. we had a fight 4 days ago and now boyfriend is very distant . i m scared will he hate me forever?? will he leave me? i...

I can't count on my best friend! She's too flaky!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I have a friend problem, and I'm really getting sick of being messed around. My best friend, or so I thought, and I have known each other for about five years. We were so close in high school, until about two years later she just stopped being my ...

He moves too fast and then he's gone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - So i'm dating this guy who likes to get really serious really fast and then he gets tired of having the chick around. I made the mistake of letting him do this with me and now I am afraid he's getting tired of me being around. How do I keep him from ...

She doesn't show the love

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - I'll try and keep this short. I meta a girl 9 months ago, we began seeing each other 2-3 times a week and fell in love. we became a couple and things went great until around a month ago which was the last time we saw each other. She's now givin...

Is this a phase that most men go through at mid-life or is he just being a complete cheating jerk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I’m 45 and have had two children and my body isn’t what it used to be of course and I suspect that my husband is lusting after a younger woman really, really bad. My husband keeps comparing me to younger women and makes comments like “you used to ...

How can I admit to lying about such an awfull thing.??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - So when my b/f and I started dating he really wanted sex. I didnt, so I told him I was raped and it was still so clear i didnt want sex so he backed off. we have gotten really close over the last 3 years. but how do i tell him i lied to him is it ...

My marriage is a nightmare, because of my husbands Friend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Please help my marriage is on the rocks because of this. My husband has a friend who we both agreed is a bad one to be associated with. (Drugs, no respect, cont. In trouble etc) so the friend won't stop calling texting etc. We have had problems ...

He makes my blood boil! I'm hitting my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for four years. The first two were great but the last two haven't gone well. My boyfriend is immature and wants to spend all his time with his friends and playing video games. Which starts a lot of fights since we live ...

Will his small lies turn into big lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone....I'm a bit lost and confused and could use an outside perspective to try to see things more clearly. Sorry if it's a bit long!! My boyfriend of a year is the best! He's lovely and perfect and treats me like a princess. H...

Will he ever drop all the other women and just be with me?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

10 December 2008 (?) - I will try to make this as short as possible. I met my BF, we'll call him Ami, when I was 17 and he was 24. I moved in the middle of my senior year to a totally different state and had to leave all of my friends and family. I gained a new group of ...

Do I accept my husband's wandering eye?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - This may sound like a silly question but here goes....Im a 40yr old married woman and mother. My husband and I have been married 20yrs and have 5 great kids. The issue is that everytime we go out my husband is constantly eyeballing women half my ...

Girlfriend cool one minute, crazy the next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - What do i do about my girlfriend?! She acts real cool one min the crazy angry the next. She just told me she cant trust me but i think the one who feels no trust must feel guilty about something they have done. I don't even question her fake ...

I'm not as important to her as she is to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - ************ JEALOUSY ************** I am jealous to do with my partner's sexual past. She is 15 yrs older. I was a virgin and hadn't even kissed a girl! She had been married for 6 yrs (still has ex's surname and has a child-whom I adore) and had...

Abusive, and manipulative, but I still hang on, should I break with him and not look back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I need some advice urgently. At my age, I cant imagine I'm still having to ask for advice when I know its wrong...so wrong to hold on to this relationship. Well, I've been with this boyfriend of mine who does nothing but ask for money, be abuse,...

Torn between past and present!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Okay, well it's a kind of a long story but.. When I was 13 I met this kid named, well, let's call him Ken. When I was 13 he was 16, and of course I was head over heels because come on I'm a young teenager and he's an older guy. Well, the thing ...

Been together for 3 years, no romance anymore, what can I do?

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10 December 2008 (F) - hi,my boyfriend and i have been togeather for about 3 yrs and we have a 5 month old son. ever since the baby came the romance in our relationship has completely died and i cant seem to get him to be more romantic. i tell him this but it seems like ...

I have endured cheating, and dishonesty, still want to seduce him, how do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I have read alot of the posts re: marriage and porn, and i am one of those wives who has dealt with the lies, dishonesty etc for the last five years....we are 80% of the time really good together (day to day stuff parenthood etc)...my questions are ...

Do you think I should get out of this relationship after 30 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

10 December 2008 (?) - I don't know what to do any more, I have been getting into some debt through my son, when I come clean to my husband about the debt he has literally went mad and won't give me any support. He has always worked abroad and never took responsibilty ...

He holds me back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I have a problem. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years and I really have fallen for him, but things have gone terribly wrong in out relationship. I am turning 18 soon and I really want to live life, but I don't feel I can do that with ...

Is this also a form of abuse?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I was wondering if throwing someone on the floor, or pulling them by the hair, or putting your hand over their mouth so they can't breathe, or even pushing your head against theirs so it feels like their nose will break is as bad as slapping or ...

How do I know that she won't do the same to me some day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

10 December 2008 (M) - She is on her way out of a relationship with long time boyfriend and he doesn't know it yet, we have kept things clean for the most part and I'm kinda waiting in the background to get with her but how do I know that she won't do the same to me some ...

Why does he do this when he knows it upsets me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I'm very insecure, I've always been, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he was like the popular funny kid at school, we both have a facebook, and literally 95 percent of his friends are girls, every day he's friends with like 3 new ...

Married for 5 years and he's cheated on me twice...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 5 years, we have 3 young kids, he's cheated on me already and produced a child with the other person and I decided to stay. Now I found out he has cheated again on both occasions I knew in my heart he was. ...

Boyfriend does not reply to messages promptly, feel ignored

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Hello aunts, I am in a new relationship and my bf does not reply promptly to my text messages and it makes me thinks if he is just "using" me (we have had sex). Its not like he dosent reply at all but it just feels like whenever he has free time or ...

I feel twisted into many directions... just need some help please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - Well let's see where shall I begin...? I stayed anonymous because I've wrote here before just don't want anyone to know me.... well I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, I live in M.O. just moved here 6 months ago from S.C. which is where me ...

Comfort zone or baby drama torn between the two!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

10 December 2008 (F) - I am in love with two men. The first is the father of my son who I have been with for 5 yrs. Not a very happy 5 yrs. He is currently locked up (minor charge) and has been for 8 months. During that time I met another guy who I have fellen in love ...