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Archived questions from: 7 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did I go into this new relationship on the rebound?

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7 December 2008 (F) - Hey, the story is I was with a guy for a while (coming up to two years) but then we started to not get on as well and we argued and in the end there wasn't much of a relatioship going on so we broke up. I was obviously upset for a while but after a ...

I don't feel the same way about him as I used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for about seven months, it's all been good, he told me he didn't want me talking to my ex and when we got in a fight I called him and we talked.. 2 months of us going out and then I told my boyfriend. He was okay with ...

I want him, not his kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend keeps trying to push his children on me. I do not like children and have chosen not to have any of my own. He contacted me through a personal ad on the internet that stated how I feel about kids, so there was no surprises, he knew ...

I like this guy but I am afraid that WE have severally screwed this up AGAIN. Opinions needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I met this man when he was married about nine years ago. Without any thought he and I began a passionate extra-marital affair that continued off and on for about a year or so. He got divorced and began seeing someone else. I was crushed because I ...

Is this normal or the start of abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I met this guy when I was 17 years old and he and I have been sleeping together and been "Together" on and off for three years. I am almost twenty one now. The relationship has become unhealthy and we are more addictied to each other. I cant get him ...

Do I wait a week then ask her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - I like this girl and was unsure whether she liked me or not. We had kissed on a couple of occasions, but it didn't necessarily mean she liked me as we were both drunk and as most will know these things happen. Anyway, I was at a party and she was ...

How can I pick my spirits back up and be a happy wife, mother, and person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I am 28 years old with 3 children 2 of them are by my husbands. Me and my husband been married going on 3 years and been dating for 5 years. My problem is I don't want to be married any more and I know I don't want to be married. I love the family ...

She wants me to find the answer through God to see if we can make it work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - We have known each other for 3 or so years (a little more). We have strong feelings for each other and we are having a really difficult time. We know alot of things about each other and well technically its getting to the point where i want to know ...

I allowed myself to get manipulated into a quick marriage so now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I got married to a man I hardly knew two year s ago after coming out of an abusive relationship. The attention from this man made me feel reassured and I feel that I allowed myself to be manipulated into a quick marriage also due to social pressures ...

Does he feel guilty about the way he treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for 2 months before he split with me for someone else back in august. I was in love with him so this was heartbreaking for me. 2 weeks later I find that Im pregnant by him. He didnt want to know and so I had an abortion as Im too ...

My girlfriend doesn't want to talk to me any more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I love my girlfriend too much, some time ago she also loved me but now she told me that she don't like me. Now she told me that she wants to live her own life, when I say ok she starts calling her old ex boyfrnd and she talks every day when ...

I'm increasingly resenting his cross-dressing, like he steals my femininity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and have known from several weeks into our relationship that he liked to cross-dress. In the beginning this was something I totally accepted - I was honored that he trusted me, it was something we ...

Plans have been cancelled, and now he's mad at what my friend said!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm hoping I can get some answers to this question considering this guy would be my first ever boyfriend. My boyfriend and I had been planning for a week and a half about him coming over to spend the weekend with me at my parent's house. ...

I'm afraid to open up and love, fearing I'll end up hurt. How to change this?

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7 December 2008 (F) - I think I'm afraid to love someone, because I think they'll end up hurting me . And because I always think about what the bad things are about them. I really really really want to fall in love and open myself for other people. But everytime I close ...

How to prove I will never lie or cheat again as I found real love with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - hello, im having a problem with my girlfriend and its all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship,i ve cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why i did all this to her, though i lied because i dont want to lose her, ...

Why is she annoyed that I went out with a female friend? She does the same to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

7 December 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together just over 2 years. over thosses 2 years she has gone out with many male friends some has bothered me some hasnt. the other day i went out with a female friend and told her about it all. i went out with the ...

I don't want to try group sex, why doesn't he take no for an answer??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - My man of 1 year has recently found a sudden interest in trying group sex. He says we would not join another couple physically, but rather, have sex in the same room as another couple (very close friends). I asked him why, and he responded "it would ...

I met this man I love 25 years ago and I have had an ON and OFF relationship! Am I right for starting to end it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi Im Frangi. I met the man i love 25 years ago. Recently we broke up again for the 50,000th time. He can be very difficult and closed about his emotions. I am open and like to communicate especially about our relationship. He says he's happy an...

Is he just hanging on to me as a possible insurance policy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi All. I have been friends with this guy for over 2 years now(he's 7 yrs older if that matters). we had a "mini relationship" for the first year then broke up because he doesn't want a relationship and i felt i was getting too attached emotionally ...

I'm in a great relationship, but I have gone out with friends and ended up kissing a random guy! How do I stop myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi- So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now and we have an amazing relationship. We get along great, we live together, we dont fight and he is everything I want in a man. However, two times during our relationship I have ...

According to the Zodiac, I'm a sex-crazed being that is bad in relationships and I am thinking it's true.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - So this is for all those people who like zodiac signs and their meannings. Okay i'm a sag-cap this is because i was born on the cusp so i'm both signs. When you read about people born on this day, It says were great at work, and what ever we set our ...

Was engaged, he backed out, got another girl pregnant and know he wants back...What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Okay big question.....I love him I know I do that's not the question. We were engaged a year ago, He got Major cold feet, left, got another chick pregnant, now he wants back in. Says he made a huge mistake by leaving. Says that we are meant to be ...

Should I be patient or should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I was hoping to get some advice on a very personal issue For the last year and a half I have been with my current boyfriend (K). Even though we started as good friends he initiated his interest and I completely fell for him. At the time I wa...

Am I being self centered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) - On November 1st of last month it was my 19th birthday, and coincidentally, the day that my first, and current bf and I started dating. Now of course it's my first time doing all this lovey-dovey stuff and whatnot, and it seemed like I could be ...