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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I help my love realize that I'm all she needs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - Hello. I'm new here and very desperate for my relationship to work. I have a girl and she's in college. We have been together for 4 years. Our relationship is a serious one as well. We even planned our future out together. I love her so much and she ...

Love Sick Don't Know What To Do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Hi! I don't know what to do,I am so torn apart. I broke up with someone i love very much about 8 months ago and it has been hell since then. We are currently in contact, am not sure if he is still interested in me because I am crazy about him. Do i ...

Flirting boyfriend tired of me!

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9 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 3 months. i feel like were falling apart. WE hardly text or talk anymore. He acts different towards me at times and is always flirting with this one girl. he says there just really good friends. i ...

Fiance won't leave home to move in with me but will move in with his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, I have been with my Fiance for over 3 years now. We are very happy together and are planning an overseas wedding for 2010. We live in different cities and see each other every other week or so, and we have done since we were together. I am 18, ...

I just don't know if being with my babys father is the right thing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - i love the father of my child and i care bout him alot but we argue all the time and he rarely keeps his promises to me we break up and get back together all the time i sometimes think he cheats on me but i dont know for sure. i really really love ...

Tired of hiding that I'm in love! What should I do?

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9 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone I am just wanting to know if any one can help me here I am bi but I am in love with my best m8s gf he knows this and he is cool with this and he know she liked me too. Me and her are seeing each other at the moment but the thing is...

"Fiancee" troubles...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Me and my fiencee have been together for 15 months. I call him he never answer phone most of the time. We use to spend alot of time together. I havnt seen him for 3 weeks i miss him and love him so much. It seems all he wants is sex. I no thats not ...

Just found out my girlfriend had a child and put it up for adoption - now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - I have been dating a girl in a long distance relationship for three months now. She just sent me a letter that told me how she got pregnant a couple of years ago with a jerk ex-boyfriend. She had the kid and gave it away in an open adoption. She ...

Fiancee trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - My fiancee has been ignoring me and not calling me. I love him so much and want to be with him. I haven't seen him for 3 weeks. I don't know what to do I want to be with him. When I do se him it's like all he wants is sex and I want more than that. ...

He mentioned also that he's not ready for committment is this an impulse decision or he just didn't love me enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Me and my ex broke up twice already second break up just happen a week ago, theres a lot of things happen I got pregnant he was so happy and excited but then I lost the baby, he was still taking care of me he said he loves me but then later after my ...

He is pushing me to see if I will reconcile with him because he might have cancer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - My husband of two years and I are seperated and currently living in two different countries (he is military) He thought he was having a midlife crisis and no longer wanted to be married, so I finally left and came back to the States after enduring ...

What is the secret that guys have of making girls fall in love with them???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering could a male reader tell me? The guys I like or fancy boast about there so called girlfreinds to me all the time. I don't know why, it's like I want to know because I don't so why do they do it to me it's so annoying...

What can I do to make him stop this? It's freaking me out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Hi i was wondering if you can help me, I'm in a relationship have been for seven months, and I have this ex (it was a very young relationship) and he is still "in love with me" after 5 years (strange to me but anyway), is it normal for a person to ...

I love someone who hates me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - i love someone who hates me. i met her six months back. ironically she is one of the best friends of my best friend. she was in a relationship at that point of time. but she was not happy with the way her realtion was going. she would tell me that ...

Is my boyfriend hooked on his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my dream guy that i've loved for 5 years for 8 monthes now. he has an ex of 2 and a half years and it seems like he's still hooked on her. she sent him through the court system and now she's trying to wreck us. he always tells me he ...

I feel like he's cheating or possibly does not want a relationship any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I'm 22 years old and I have recently started a new relationship with a 25 year old guy. We have been dating for five months now, and the relationship is starting to change to the point where I am starting to question staying with him. I vowed that I ...

Fiance comes as a package! Not sure I want it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I (35y) and my boyfriend (45) are together for 3 years (2 y we live together). He got divorced 6 years ago and has six children with his ex. The marriage took place about 20years ago. She (ex) threw him out of the flat (all of a sudden) and ...

Distant lover says I'm crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I'm in a relationship for 6 years and don't feel like he loves me anymore. He's very distant and never pays any attention to me. He sleeps with me only when he wants to and says I'm losing my head, when i tell him i feel used! I don't know wha...

I'm married to a swinging liar!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Last year i found out that my partner of 6 years had been cheating on me with swingers all through our relationship, he started meeting these people a few months after we got together. When I found out he denied it, he even swore on his young sons ...

What should I do if I feel my life is worth nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I feel i dont want or have anything in life no more and i just want out. Sorry this may be long. Well at 6 years i was druged and raped nothing was done about it at 8 years my mum threatened to beat me if i mentioned her cheating on my dad and on ...

Moody boyfriend.

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9 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and recently he has been getting really stressy with me even when I don't do anything, is he going off me? ...

I always do chores in his stead while he lazes around, could you help me?

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9 December 2008 (F) - My fiancee and I are so in love but it seems like i'm always gotta tell him what to do, for an example: change his son's diaper, fix him breakfast, take him a shower, all that stuff and then he even asks what do he do to get our son to sit down and ...

Am I just the other person standing in the way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are opposite ends of the spectrum. He's outgoing, loves to socialize, has tons of friends, loves sports and is generally a very happy, energetic and fun person. I, on the other hand, have the typical introverted personality type. ...

Am I cheating a young girl? Should I look for an older woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - I am 48 and I fall in love with an 18 year old. I dont know how, but I cant live without her. Am I cheating a young girl? Should I look for a older woman only to get out of my deep emptiness in my life. But I dont find or I dont like any of the ...

How do I stop my crazy ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - So I have been dating my current girlfriend now for almost 10 months, and i really think i love her, but my crazy ex girlfriend who just likes to mess with guys and stuff keeps making up these awful rumors about me, and she tells them to my ...

I'm having an affair but I don't want to hurt anybody or ruin anything. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I have been having an affair with one of my collegues for over a year now. He has since proceeded with his divorce and it will be final at the end of the month. I have not even filed. My husband and i were only married 4 mos before i began this ...

My fiance is putting me down!! Suggestions, please!

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9 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a problem with my fiance. Lately we have been fighting, ALL THE TIME. I know it start fights sometimes, but it is because I have so much stress with college, work, family, etc. I know it is not right to take it out on him, however, ...