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writes:I constantly had a fight with my boyfriend recently and I was so mad at him yesterday that I texted him that we should end the relationship if things don't go accordingly.I didn't mean to do so seriously; I was just mad at him at that time and blurt things out without thinking. And surprisingly, he said that he understands and maybe we should reconsider our relationship.I texted him back that I was too angry to think clearly before and we should see in person, not by phone. And he didn't text me back ever since.I know that I chocked it, but I don't want to lose him. Maybe it's too late to hold him back, right?What should I do? Should I text him that I want to see him and talk it out? or should I just wait till he contacts me first?
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (30 December 2008):
 I made this mistake with my last boyfriend. I would get mad and say "I'm done, I don't want to do this anymore." It was the harshest thing I could think of to say and I would blurt it out without considering what I said. Well it happened twice maybe but the last time I said it he agreed. He ignored me completely when I tried to talk to him. Needless to say it was over. I don't know that your boyfriend is ignoring you, when I called my ex he would hang up in my face, not sure if the same is happening to you. So call him, tell him you are sorry for what you said, you didn't mean it, you just got so mad, you love him and don't want it to be over. Basically tell him exactly how you feel so you won't regret anything later and you knew you had done all you could. If he doesn't want it to work then you just have to take it as a learning experience. All you can do is try, it's up to him on where he wants it to go. Good luck.
PS- And you can get better with your arguing. I think about what I say now and don't make the same mistakes with my current boyfriend.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 December 2008):
Well you told him that you shouldn't talk by text and only in person and now you are worried because he's not texting you?
Ring him and arrange to meet tomorrow and talk about it.
Good Luck!! xx
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