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Guys: What does it mean to you if she wants to swallow?

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Question - (8 May 2009) 11 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2010)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Question for the guys. If a girl wants to swallow your cum, what does it mean to you? Is is special in an emotional way or purely sexual?

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A male reader, hindsight United States +, writes (21 July 2010):

I found a girl once that not only wanted to swallow, but enjoyed swallowing. I married her.

For more reasons that that, obviously, but it's a nice bonus. :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

This is pretty funny cause just a couple of days ago my

ex who i dated for like 8 months was talking about this. We are working on being with eachother again (parents hate me blah blah) and I took her verginity and Vise Versa, but anywho she was telling me about how she wants to pleasure me again and she wants to swallow for me...I honestly had no idea what to say. Like i'v never had a girl be that comfterable with me and expessially one thats this f-ing hot...So to me its like the ultimate pleasure cause it hut me like she really wants to and when i asked her why she said me being inside of her was amazing and she wanted to have everything she could from me so the word is AMAZING!

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A male reader, Trias21 Canada +, writes (9 May 2009):

It is very sexual of course but with a strong essence of deep intimate and emotional connection.

It excites me much more than pure oral.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (9 May 2009):

DoubleM agony auntThere are always opinions of course. As one of the older advisors here, I can only offer about 35-40 years of experience receiving oral to climax since about 1967.

But you ask whether a man's enjoyment with a cum-swallowing female is emotional or sexual? Usually both and much more, dude. How can we possibly know exactly why your girlfriend wants to gulp your load? Many women just love it. And it feels great to release to her orally due to the sensations she can give with her lips and tongue.

Giving her plenty of oral should precede your pleasures.

Providing that health is good and both partners are free of STDs, then certainly a man's ejaculate is safe for your gal to swallow and actually quite nutritious. Been done for tens of thousands of years with no apparent fatalities reported.

After all, the primary functions of semen are to both transport and nourish those seeds - which also nourish the girl.

In my opinion, a woman swallows your sperm when she really likes you and you are thoroughly pleasing her sexually - preferably first.

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A male reader, audacity United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2009):

I think it's a little of both. It does mean a lot if she is willing to do it to put a smile on your face.

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A female reader, mrs.smith81608 United States +, writes (8 May 2009):

I never swallowed or enjoyed giving oral until I was married, I'm far from a prude but swallowing bodily functions LOL kinda grossed me out. I believe it's also a mix of emotional and sexual. My husband was totally turned on that I swallowed. If she wants to, let her. Although you might have something to rinse the cum taste out of her mouth and off her breath. Sorry I just kinda find this awkward yet funny. I mean no harm. ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009):

I'd have to say it's probably purely sexual. At least on a conscious level.

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntI'm sure lots of people view it as different things.

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A male reader, Rogerramjet Canada +, writes (8 May 2009):

Eh, i'd have to say it's purely sexual. I never really thought of it as anything emotional.

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A male reader, surfer_CJ Australia +, writes (8 May 2009):

surfer_CJ agony auntsome girls are quite curious to what it may taste let, others feel like it is a bit naughty and get a sexual thrill out of it. of course you have an emotional connection with this person anyway because she wouldn't do it otherwise. think of yourself lucky, my exgirlfriend wouldn't even consider it and actually spat it back out once on my chest. funny embarrassing but quite funny. All the best :)

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A female reader, kayliv United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2009):

kayliv agony aunti no im a girl, but to the guys ive been with they see it as both emotional and sexual, so if she wants 2 swallow let her, if not then dont force it because more girls then u think swallow because they think it pleases u guys n they dont actually enjoy it at all!!

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