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He won't let me swallow his semen

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Question - (8 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My partner wont let me swallow his semen? How do I persuade him. I have had it only once and loved it as I accept it as part of him. Any suggestions.

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A male reader, Harry Castle United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2009):

Harry Castle agony auntI'm a little bemused by the male answerers here; no disrespect, gents, but have you ever tasted your own?

Sorry if this sounds gross, but some time ago, a reluctant swallower said to me..."you wouldn't ask a woman to do that (swallow) if you knew how it tasted yourself".

I asked her to oblige with her hand, and collect the result. A little hesitantly, I proceeded to lick it up, only to find that it tasted of nothing at all, virtually.

Maybe I was lucky, I don't know - not a procedure I've repeated!

Sorry if that was too much information for some, but I hoped it was relevant to the posting.

Harry.

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A female reader, Artistry United States +, writes (8 May 2009):

Artistry agony auntHi there, Let's cut to a very vital health concern for some informed people. If a guy cannot show me that he does not have the aids virus,(negative aids test), no semen in my mouth and no sex without a condom anyway. Even if you don't have the virus now, there is a 12 year incubation period before you know you have it. So all this it tastes good, it doesn't, think about your life, educate yourself on why you should practice safe sex. There are worse things than pregnancy now a days. The aids virus is carried in the male's semen for a fact, ask any doctor. So if your life is so insignificant, keep practicing these satisfying little things, and exposing yourself to a very dangerous game. Take care.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (8 May 2009):

niki20 agony auntjust ask him why? tell him your fond of it. explain why you like and tell him that you prefer to swallow. if he doesnt budge you might have to deal w/ the fact that he doesnt want you to

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (8 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntSemen tastes horrible! How can you like it? Ewwww! He probably thinks it tastes aweful too and he doesn't want to make you go through that! Could he have a std of anything like that? He could be thinking that it can't be passed on if you don't swallow, could he be cheating? X

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A male reader, Rogerramjet Canada +, writes (8 May 2009):

As a guy who kinda has the same hang-up, i have to agree with Jessica04. It's kinda hypocritical of me too, because i go down on my wife all the time and then kiss her immediately afterward without a second thought, but when it comes to her kissing me after she's gone down on me, I am always hesitant. Something to do with being able to taste my own manhood in her mouth.

I would definitely ask him about it.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (8 May 2009):

jessica04 agony auntSome guys just aren't into kissing after oral, especially after cumming. That could be it, or some part of it.

Have you asked him what his hang up is? Personally, I think if he is ok with kissing you after you going down on him, then it shouldn't matter if he cums or not, especially since I'm sure precum is involved.

Just explain to him that you enjoy it, and ask him why he is against it. If he is firm about not wanting you to swallow, then you might just have to deal with it and spit.

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