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writes:i dont regret this, but i think i do :Si no this boy 'c' and he was really sweet to me. so after about 6 months of talking to him on msn, i decided to meet him. he only lived araound the corner from me so it wasent that bad. but the first time i met him, he was really sweet and kind. then the second time, he soured up abit because i wouldn't have sex with him. so after a couple of months i met him again and we whent to his house. then he started kissing me and eventually we had sex(with protection.) now its 2 months on, hes with someone, and ive just got out of a relationship, and he keeps asking me to have sex with himbut im really confused what to do :S,
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Don't see him he just wants sex after all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Dont i think u should tell his lass
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reader, pebble +, writes (9 May 2009):
 He's a cheating loser honey. He only wants sex from you and that's all he wanted when you were talking on msn. Because you did finally give in, he probably thinks that all he has to do is apply a little pressure and you'll give in again.
Prove to him that you are more than that. He doesn't want a relationship, he wants to cheat on his girlfriend. Surely that shows you what kind of guy he really is.
Move on from him, delete him from your life. Show him you won't be anyone's play thing. You are worth much more than that.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes 17
im 14
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reader, Rogerramjet  +, writes (8 May 2009):
I agree with Irish49. I knew a girl who was just like this. She was always being used for sex, especially by people who already had girlfriends. It's the old "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" argument.I guarantee you this guy has no interest in you outside of the fact that he thinks he can get sex easily.Don't give it to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): Let's put this perspective for you. This is not a nice guy and really...it's no big loss, on your part. Firstly, you are not on his priority list, he doesn't want to date you in a decent, romantic way..he has a girlfriend, who gives that to him. He wants to use your body for his fun on the side, so that means he doesn't like you nor respects you. What does that tell you about this boy who treats females, like scum? It tells me, he's a pretty slimey type of guy. So...cut him loose and go find someone who treats you better than this. And work on your self-respect, hun so you can be able to recognize these 'players' when they approach you. Sex does not get you a bf. But it can get you pregnant at a very young age, it can get you a few STD's to deal with and a lot of future heartache and worry.
This guy is not worth it. Dealing with a cad like this will take your self-esteem down to the gutter. He is a guy who'll take what he wants from you, because you allow him to do that. Set boundaries and stand up for yourself here. Don't let others do this to you. Be a stronger, powerful person of dignity and walk away from this. You won't ever, ever ever, regret doing that. Because it means you are looking out for number ONE..yourself! Take care
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reader, Ms.Helper +, writes (8 May 2009):
 I wouldn't meet him again if I was you. It's disrespectful how he's basically used you for sex. If he went sour with you because you wouldn't have sex with him then that was the time you should have walked away, he's bad news for you and you deserve better than to be 'a bit on the side' after you've both just broke up with your partners. He should've have known better as you're underage too, how old is he?x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2009): If you don't really care about this guy than don't have sex with him. there are guys out in this world that only want girls for one thing and when they get it they'll throw you away until they want it again. don't waste your time with this guy. if you keep giving him what he wants then he's just going to continue doing this over and over. if you want to b in a relationship with someone find someone that wants to be your bf not just your sex partner. respect yourself before you try to make other people satisfied
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