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writes:I have been having a sexual relationship with this guy for over 20 years. I know he is totally happy with what I do, but I am really kinda looking for something new to do. I love giving him oral sex, but I need something new. I've tried different positions, gels, toys. I need something new, something that will blow his mind away. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): you may be looking more more sexual things things to do to your lover of 20 years but i also think you may have a deeper problem. sex alone cannot fix the problems you are having with your lover. you are also afraid that he is losing interest.
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reader, malum424 +, writes (8 May 2009):
 You could try video taping yourselves, maybe so light role playing you know like the handy man and the sexy house wife, or you could mix the two together and make your own porn to watch together later.Semi public sex meaning go to a camp ground get a camp site set up your tent and have at it during the day in your tent...and my school teacher told me having a dirty mind was useless ha
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 May 2009):
 If you have not tried it, and you said you love giving oral, then you might add a prostate rub. It usually causes a bigger and more intense ejaculation and climax during oral. Respond if more detail needed.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (8 May 2009):
 You know the old sayin' "If it ain't broke, don't fix it", you've been having good sex with this guy for 20 years, you must be doing something right!!
However, that said, have you tried role play or something a little more kinky? Maybe discuss his personal fantasies and build something from there - make t very much just for him and give him exactly what he's been fantasising about?
It really is hard to give advise when you're going so strong with this man and he's not done yet!!
For a list of ideas you could always check out this site:
http://www.essence.com/relationships/advice/articles/zanestop9waystohavemindblowingsextonight/
Good luck!
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