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writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years now and living together for just over a year of that time. I feel as though I really care for him but we, like every relationship, have our problems. The biggest problem is that he never wants to have sex, EVER!! We do it maybe once a week, and this has been going on since before we lived together so it's not a new development. The second problem that is that we have no mutual friends and when I go out I rather go without him than with him because I feel as though I have more fun :(Lately I have been thinking about moving out and starting over, but I'm scared to do that as well. I think it would make me a happier person but I'm afraid that it could also end up being the worst decision. So do I continue with this relationship because hes a good guy and would never cheat on me and always be there for me, or do I move out and on with my life hoping that it's not the worst mistake of my life?Please help me with this, it's been on my mind for 4-5 months now and I can't stand thinking about it all the time anymore :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for you advice
I have tried sitting down with him on several occassions and going over issues in our relationship but he always wants to act as though there are no issues and everything is fine. The couple times where we actually did discuss problems, sure things seemed to get better for a week or two but end up back where they were shortly after. I can honestly say there has nothing I havent tried, I have even suggested a relationship therapist because I really do care about him and love him, but he said no way to that. Even though I feel that I have tried everything I'm still worried I will miss him in the end, my head tells me to move on but my heart is unsure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): well you've been dating for 2.5 i think you should talk to him , and try getting to know his friends , if that didn't work out then when you move on you'll never have any doubts but if you didn't try anything , some day you may come to regret what you did
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