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My first sexual experience and I came almost straight away...Do I have some kind of sexual 'defect'?

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Question - (25 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2009)
A male India age 41-50, *aaku writes:

Hello to all. I am 27 years old had sex for the first time. I manage doing foreplay for more than 25 Min's but the bad experience is that i cum with in 4-5 movements after putting my pe... into her cu..

Can any body suggest me out whether is it a sexual defect or ....?

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (26 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntno you dont have any sexual defect.

with practice you will last longer.

try not to worry about it & enjoy

good luck!

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A male reader, lonestarchalk1 United States +, writes (25 July 2009):

lonestarchalk1 agony auntDude cum all you can, get it out, the lasting longer part will come with time, keep drilling man, role on

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A male reader, Rogerramjet Canada +, writes (25 July 2009):

That first time always takes us by surprise :P

One thing you can try to do is to masturbate a little bit before you have sex.... To quote the tv show "Family Guy": "Squeeze out that easy one"

Otherwise, practise makes perfect. The more you have sex, the more you'll learn how to recognize the various sensations and when to speed up and when to slow down..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009):

Hi,

Please please do not be worried, this is a perfectly normal experience, you do not have any sexual defects what so ever. Its very common on 1st time experiences, the more you have sex the better things will become, you will learn your body better and know when things are maybe going to quickly, and be able to stop for while to calm things down then try again. Its all fun and you will become more confident. Enjoy!

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A female reader, Tarianna Jamaica +, writes (25 July 2009):

Tarianna agony auntno...its usually that way for a guy...not usually....at your first encounter...you'll always cum quickly....then as you contniue you start to last longer and longer...you dont have any sexual defect.....27 and a virgin?...thats just so kool...I like virgin guys...maybe cuz I'm one also....just find it sexy....but congrats

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