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Large labia minora....is this a turn off to men?

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Question - (23 July 2009) 15 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello

This is a little bit embarrassing.... I just wondered if anyone could give me HONEST answers as to what they think as i'm too embarrassed to ask anyone I know. I have large labia minora that hang down a little... i am so paranoid about them...is this a major turn off for men?? thanks to anyone who replies

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (21 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntAs a man over 60 that has seen up close som really long and some really short lips. I definetly prefer the longest possible. One for each check. An enormous turn on!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009):

As a man who treats women as Stradivarius would a violin, I can attest that large labia ARE a turn-on. They respond beautifully to my tongue, are more responsive in general, and it's been my experience that woman with pronounced labia become more aroused and are more orgasmic during sex. The woman I'm dating now is self-concious about hers too, and it breaks my heart (another victim of the Barbie-esque "flesh taco" ideal that passes for feminine beauty). Women with large labia are better in bed. Period. Rock on, baby!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009):

NO A BIG LIPED WOMAN IS HOT

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009):

I think a large lipped pussy is hot

gives ya something ya want to suck on

men's penises are diferent

just like womens vaginas are diferent

I've never seen an ugly pussy in my life

and i'm 49

be proud of what ya got

whether it's hangin or hidin

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009):

I am a 36 year old male and I have seen just about every type. The truth be told most men don't care either way long/short we are just happy to see them up close. My personal preference is to have a little length not half way to your knee but a little angle to the dangle.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009):

no its not embarrassing at all. I adore it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

www.sexylabia.com

I think this site will answer your questions. My wife has big sexy lips and i would not trade them for anything in the world. I wish she would stop feeling self-concoius too. They are georgeous.

A very happy husband of a well endowed woman.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

Hi i had labia reduction and this was amazing i now have confidence and my medical aid covered it after my dr sent a motivational letter.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2009):

I know how you feel, as a guy, right after the girl undresses I completely stop with foreplay. I then lay her on her back and examine her with great scrutiny. Then I flip her over and examine her again. I bring out my tape measure, ruler, and other instruments and write down her exact details. After a comparison with the standard of what is considered good for a girl by the Committee of Female Figure standards she either passes or fails. I only have sex with her if she passes and happens to have been insane enough to hang around long enough for all of this... Yeah, right, no one ever cares or does a comparison.

The Labia Minora has never ever come up in conversation with a guy. We don't ever say, "And then I was just about to have sex with her, and her Labia Minora was hanging down a little so I had to stop". If a guy actually said this to another guy then the conversation would continue like this: Whack Other guy hits first on the head. "What did you hit me for?". "Oh, that was just to knock the stupid out of you. What do you mean you stopped! Were you studying anatomy or having sex?!".

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A male reader, DLover Canada +, writes (24 July 2009):

Can I tell you a secret ? Women are too judgemental about their bodies, while men are just grateful to see them !

Don't complicate things so much, our IQ drops to about a third or a quarter of our usual IQ when we're exited, I don't think men will get un-exited by that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

Nah most people's hang a bit. Mine do. Seriously, guys don't care what they look like so long as you have them!

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2009):

smeedle agony auntBet there is nothing to worry about but you feel there is and I have not seen you so dont know if there is or not so im telling you for peace of mind that you should go onto the web, put in labia and check it out, or log into embarrasing bodies on net and see what they come up with.

information will put your mind at ease.

If you do find you have a problem and very very rarely there is then you can have surgery but this is a last resort and im sure not needed.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

Like Old Guy said, it just doesn't matter. I actually think that ones that hang down a little are cute. They are fun to play with between trying to give her clitoral orgasms with oral. She likes that too. Don't worry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

Well, the only times I've ever been in a position to really get a good look at a woman's genitals, there's been far too little blood anywhere near my brain to be critical about appearance. I suspect I'm not unusual in that regard. ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2009):

I have the same thing-I actually don't think it is as uncommon as you may suspect. My boyfriend and every other man I have ever been intimate with all liked it just fine. Just as every guy has a penis every women has a vagina and there are unique traits in those areas from person to person. Some guys are thicker and some are longer. Same goes for females. I wouldn't say it is a turn off for men. Not in my experience anyways. You will never find two that are exactly alike. In the end an intimate experience isn't based solely on the physical state of our partners, it is the coming together of two people with a common goal of pleasure. Do matter what you look like down there it will still be a pleasurable experience so even if he has never seen something similar before I would expect it would only add to the experience. Don't let this minor thing change your esteem. Take care!

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