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writes:Just a quick question for the girls, I have had one sexual partner and another guy who I would have fooled around with. Thing is I'm not sure if I've ever had an orgasm through sex or otherwise.I get pleasured but sometimes it's mixed with pain, more so through fingering than sex. Sex has never come near to giving me an orgasm.So what does an orgasm feel like? Can any girls out there just list the different feelings you experience when you have one?Thanks, and I don't have an orgasm from masturbating either.
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reader, Firefighter's Wife 09  +, writes (30 January 2009):
The famous question! What does an orgasm feel like! When I have sex just plain penetration, I can't have an orgasm. If I rub my clit in a soft circle while we are having sex I can sometimes have an O! The only guaranteed orgasm is from masturbating with a clitoral vibrator. When I have an orgasm, it comes on slowly. I can feel the sensation of pressure building up from my clit. The pressures builds and builds and I get warm and my heart starts racing and then its like an explosion once it reaches that point its a giant release and your body starts to shake and your clit and vagina starts to pulse. Its such an incredible feeling you will most definitely know that you have had one!
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reader, Ted-ster +, writes (1 January 2009):
You haven't had an orgasm yet. If you had, you'd know. You need better lovers, frankly, but a lot of men don't know how despite their bravado (...based on info received from past GFs.) I've had several experiences where I was the first to make my GFs orgasm for the first time -- usually oral sex -- also, learn to get yourself off, too, through some of the suggestions posted. Relax and Enjoy!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 January 2009):
 You need to learn how to get yourself off before expecting a guy to do it for you. The clitoris is the most sensitive part of you. Take some time and get in the mood and them play with yourself. It's really the best advise I can give you. You don't need to insert anything to have a clitoral orgasm.
If fingering isn't pleasurable, then don't do it. And don't have sex unless you are "warmed" up.
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