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First time sex, the pain was an agony and it hurts when I urinate, is it normal?

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Question - (23 February 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I lost my virginity last night, i barely bled but i was so tense the pain was agony! we did it twice, without a condom but he withdrew before he came. Im sore now and it really really burns to wee, its awful! is this normal and will it always hurt when i have sex?

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2009):

oh and it's not UTI! it's just from where your pee stings the slight tears in your vagina from where he thrusted too hard or from where you were not wet enough. next time use more foreplay!

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2009):

sounds pretty common to me. BUT WHY DID YOU NOT USE A CONDOM!? just because he pulls out does not mean that you can't get pregnant or catch an STD. on his pre cum there are millions of sperm alone. it only takes one. be more responsible next time and use a condom or get on the pill.

i'm surprised you did it twice, once was enough for me on the first time. you should give yourself a week or so before doing it again. it hurts from where he stretched you. i felt like i had a slight ache inside me as well, i think it must bruise a little or something when you first have sex. it also did sting to pee the next day. went off though.

USE A CONDOM!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

It could be that the lining of your vagina has been torn due to the sex being too vigorous and prolonged or you were not wet enough or both. The acid/ saline content of your urine will aggravate the pain you are feeling as a result. Abstain for a week/ ten days before attempting intercourse again and tell him to go at it more gently - you were a virgin for God's sake! Oh - and don't forget to tell him to use a condom - if you really trust him STD-wise, then at least you should be on the pill.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009):

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oh, well can it not be anything else?

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A female reader, lightningrod247 United States +, writes (23 February 2009):

make sure to drink plenty of fluids next time, pee before hand and directly after. Cranberry supplements also help prevent them.

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A female reader, MonksDaBomb United States +, writes (23 February 2009):

MonksDaBomb agony auntSince it was your first time I would guess you were quite nervous (which is common and understandable). You said you guys did it twice. But did you guys do a lot of foreplay? Foreplay is key, especially your first time - it allows your body to prepare for sex; self-lubrication, etc., so that there's not much friction for the man to enter. Not sure about the hurts when you pee.

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A female reader, lightningrod247 United States +, writes (23 February 2009):

Congrats you've got a UTI. haha, happened to me the first time too head on over to an OBGYN and they can give you some medication to take care of it. But don't wait cause those things get bad quickly.

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