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writes: I was making love to my girlfriend (of two years) and I unhook her bra without her knowing. There was padding and toilet paper everywhere. Before I could say a thing she ran of the room. I called her a few times with no answer. I really don't thing she should padding up her bra and she wants a job boob as well. Which a shame because I would rather have the real thing. I dont get why she thinks need these things when she doesnt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): im a 17 year old girl who used to be a bit like that... low self esteem about small boobs
but then i found i really couldnt be like that anymore after my bf kept on showing how much he loved me rararar and now im happy :D
so show her you reeally love her for who she is
and dont get annoyed or sad or discouraged when she still gets like that- suddenly running off- still stuffing her bra-
understand that society today is actually really hard on girls with small boobs....
after all like all the movies and magazines and porn basically feature girls with big boobs and its stereotyped that guys are supposed to like girls with big boobs better and all that... so thats just a little bit of maybe why shes like that just you get why she thinks she needs a boob job....
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (23 February 2009):
She obviously has a massive issue with her breasts and in her head she is probably convinced that you are going to dump her if you find out how "flat chested" she is.
Text her and email her and write her letters and bombard her with messages telling you that you love her. She'll have to reply eventually.
Then just tell her how beautiful you think she is.
Also be VERY careful about pointing out girls with big boobs that you may find attractive. (no posters on your wall and nothing on your computer etc) In fact you may score points if you see a picture or a model with big boobs and point out that in 5 years they are going to be down by her knees.
Point to girls with smaller sizes like keira knightly and comment how gorgeous you think they are.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 February 2009):
 No women is ever satisfied with her boobs. A want to be B, B want to be C, C want to be D and D wants to be A.
Why? Well, your penis is to small. Ah! Understand now? For men the size of our penis is everything, despite that most women would say size doesn't matter that much. Well the same goes for women and their breasts. It is their female identity. When a girl develops breasts she goes from being an asexual critter to a woman.
It apparently ain't easy, develop to soon and she hates it because all her friends will be jealous and all the boy stare, to late and she feels left behind and ignored by all the boys.
They are part of her self-image and in her mind they are to small, probably because the "media" tells us that they got to be bigger. Forget for the moment all the a-cup supermodels and stars, logic doesn't get a look in when it comes to self-esteem.
There isn't really anything you can do to fix this. Stop thinking like a man, not every problem has a solution. She has to figure it out for herself that she is perfect the way she is and damned what anyone else might think or not think. Just be supportive of her. A boob job is a bad idea, it won't fix a negative self-image in all but the most extreem cases but saying you prefer the real thing ain't the answer. After all, in her mind that means "I prefer the real C-cups".
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reader, ambermckinzie  +, writes (23 February 2009):
Girls think if they r not perfect a guy won't want them r think they rnt good enough for you... And stuff like big boobs big ass makes a girl feel pretty n her self confidence go up...it's hard to explane like a girl has to b sastifyed with her self b4 she us round any1 else
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): honey, u have to tell her that
and she isnt going to listen to u at first, but tell her that she is perfect, that u love her, that she is beauitful and other things
u have to help her build her self esteam
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