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writes:My bf is 24 and I'm 20. We pretty much have sex once everyday.but lately I've been getting aggravated he says I dnt ask for it enough and I'm not aggressive enough, but everytime I ask he's either too tired or its just exucses. Also he won't let me go down on him and we won't go down on me? Is this strange?he says he likes to not mess around. He works 40 hrs a week and I work 55. On the days I dnt see him hell watch porn when he gets home a couple times.. also he will watch it before he sees me! I've also saw it on his phone ! He's watched it while were in the smae bed sleeping together! I don't understand why he can't wait? Or why can't he just say hey get over here.. He says it just a guy thing..but I think it more then that..he has a always willing gf. My birthday was recent and when I ask to have sex I just got turned down. I think its cuz earlier in the day he had already got it. It just brings my self esteem down so much knowing that I'm trying to be more aggressive and I'm trying to turn himon and I just get shot down..then hell do watch some other women. Please help! I cant take this anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers so far
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd I know there are no other girls cause I'm with him everyday he sleeps over almost everyday also we work at the same place and car pool...lol we're like married
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd I know there's not any other girls cuz I'm with him every day, he sleeps over almost every day. Also we work at the same place and car pool... lol we're like married.
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reader, alone1 +, writes (10 February 2009):
Honestly, I wish my wife was a little more like you. This guy is so lucky to have a woman who tries to be somewhat agressive and wants to fuck. And if he doesn't wanna fuck when you want it, but only when he wants it, just say, sorry... I'm too tired. Or start watching porn... See if that gets his attention. I'd love for my wife to just come up to me and wanna make love. He's an idiot not to see and be grateful for what he has with you. And if he's got another bitch on the side, tell him to fuck off... I'm sure you could find someone better... Just talk to him about it though... If he trips out about it, then don't give him any sex...
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (10 February 2009):
 this is weird, you need to talk to him about it. nobody should have to be 'agressive' and he should be able to wait for you, if my boyfriend watched porn then i wouldnt be happy at all, i would take it as a personal insult, like i wasnt enough for him. and if you are willing to go down on him and he says no then this is also strange, a guys favourite thing apart from sex is a blow job! has he been cheating? he may not want you to go down on him incase you can tell he's cheated by him smelling of some other girl. this needs a really in detail conversation, being a female i cant give you a blokes opinion so you need to ask him straight. keep me updated. x
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