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I constantly think about sex, undressing women, thinking about sleeping with them, stopped having sex as often with my wife, anyway to stop my urges?

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Question - (10 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *lone1 writes:

Am I a sex addict? Pretty much what's on my mind most of the time is either fucking porn or fucking... I feel I got a problem with it. I've talked to my counselor about it and he said I might be addicted to sex. When I first got with my wife we would fuck about 2-3 timès a day, we hardly do it now. I love her to death but all I do when I see a girl walkin by or something I can't keep my eyes off! I undress them with my mind or picture myself fucking them in my mind. Even when I'm with my wife... Sometimes when she doesn't give it to me or I haven't had it in a while, I think about gettin with another bitch or just fuckin another girl. I know I'd never cheat on my wife, but sometimes when I feel like that I'm not too sure of what I'm capable of... Is there ANYONE who can help me. Please!

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A female reader, Xx...Look 4 the good in people...xX United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2009):

Xx...Look 4 the good in people...xX agony auntim only thirteen and im not sure if this advice will help but i think you should speak to your wife about it and maybe friends and family, for support. Try to take up an activity to take your mind off things and maybe get some help from councillors or doctors. But most of all try not to think about it and just appreciate what youve got and lose the attitude!!

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (10 February 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIn my opinion, you may be addicted to pornography, which can ruin your sex life and relationship. While I know that you probably consider it fairly innocent, it is terribly destructive to your libido and normal relation with the woman who needs you. It encourages your manly desire for variety, which is fairly normal, but porno becomes an unhealthy replacement for the love that your woman should, and likely wants to provide you.

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