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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

How can I overcome this frigidity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female from Ireland and my problem is that I can seem to manage intimacy with anyone. I'm attracted to girls and I don't have a lot of trouble finding those who are attracted to me(not in an arrogant way) but I just feel that I ...

I have a creepy feeling that this teacher likes me more than usual, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I Have Got This Creepy feeling this Teacher likes me more than usual. whether its just that I'm Friendly and because every teacher in the school knows me I am very sociable with them, but, he always smiles at me and if he sees me in the corridors he ...

Should I use a condom if I am already protected by the contraceptive pills and would the bleeding prevent me from having an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - hello, Im a girl from Asia, I havent got much sex education at school, and so at this age when I know the time is coming I feel a bit confused. I'd like to prepare for my first time and also my sex life in the long run. Plz help me with these ...

Does first time oral hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Does it hurt getting a blow job for the 1st time ever? because i'm a virgin but i'm scared to have sex with this girl that i like a lot.. what should i do???...

Is my mother sleeping with my boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I’m a little confused. I have been dating this wonderful guy (Greg) for 9 months now. He is 21 I’m 20. I live with my mother and my younger sister ( our father left when we were little – so it’s just us girls). My mother loves my boyfriend to bits ...

On A Search For Either Escorts Or Massage Parlours Any Advice Welcome.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 49 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - Hi All I have never had a girlfriend or sex and I am in my 20's, I am fed up waiting for the right female to come along as I know it will probably never happen so I have decided to look for sex either in a massage parlour or hire an escort as I n...

I am never in the mood although initially the sex was great! What to do to improve the situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years with my fiance john, I love him very much and I am still attracted to him. When we first started dating we had a great sex life but now I just dont feel like it (I hardly ever feel sexually aroused anymore). ...

The ex fiance who harassed my husband and I now surprisingly became part of our sexual games! Should I allow her to aproach similarly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Okay, let me start from the beginning. When I first met my husband he had an ex fiance that was just obsessed with him and he was totally through with her, but she wouldn't stop trying to get in touch. Finally after about a year and a half of her ...

Can you get pregnant without intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - can a female become pregnant without full on intercourse...

I messed up. I cheated on my boyfriend with my brothers best friend who I have liked for ages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - So I have had this boyfriend for about 5 months now an we are so happy an so in love, we are always talking about how we are goin to be together forever I would never cheat on him, or so I thought. This is this guy Ill call him Joe (not his re...

Can I expect regular orgasms now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I experienced my 1st orgasm during intercourse last night-both me and my boyfriend were absolutely delighted.I had to cry out with the pleasure.Can I now expect to orgasm regularly?...

I am considering cheating

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I have been married for 10 yrs have 2 children but have had an all but non existent sex life during the marriage. I have tried seducing her buying presents doing all the household chores and even explaining that i will have to walk away from the ...

No sex before marriage... or should I?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

How can I regain my sexdrive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I am going through a depression, which i am fighting it every day. I love my bloke but i just dont want to have sex, my sex drive has gone completely and we have only been married months. I need to go to the doctors about the depression but how do i ...

If I am pregnant by this guy, would my baby be okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I'm turning 16 this year and the guy is turning 20. I met this guy 3 years ago through a friend, I didn't know who the guy was at all then later found out he had the same last name as I did. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but started to ...

Why does it have to be so damm hard to figure out what women want in order to have a lot of sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - Why does it have to be so damm hard to figure out what women want in order to have a lot of sex? Do most women want a lot of sex or is it only men? Why do you have to spend 10 times more time figuring out the issues rather than having wild sex? No ...

She is self conscious about her oversized genitalia...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - How can I convince my girl that it doesn't bother me that she has a large vagina. Out of all the lovers I have had I have to admit I have never seen anything quite like it. But it doesn't bother me in the slightest, she is beautiful she has the ...

Tips on how to give the perfect blowjob!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - okay, so me and my boyfriend have been dating 2 months and I had promised myself I would never give a blow job but only for one reason... I don't know how and it kills me because I get all the pleasure and he doesn't. Does anybody have any tips on ...

How do girl's squirt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - How do girls squirt???? ...

I'm not sure if I should be doing this stuff...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I really like this kid. I don't know though, I'm trying not to get too involved because I don't want to get too attached because I'm sick of stuff like this but whatever anyways, he came over my house today and we did stuff. He tried to get it in, ...

Is my girlfriend depressed or just sick of me? Should I hold out or move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Hello All. I'm 23, girlfriend is 33. We've been together 6 great years. We rarely have any disagreements, we see each other nightly, and do our own things at the weekends. I'm heavily involved in cars, and she likes gardening. I ...

He really wants to hear me moan...is there anything I can do so when he tries again I do moan??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 315 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Yesterday I went over to my boyfriend's house. Well he wanted to hear me moan really bad. So he tried so hard just to get me to moan. He fingered me and kissed me on the neck a lot. I felt amazing but no moan came out. So he felt like he wasn't ...

I brush him off when he wants sex, so now he's watching porn and hiding it from me, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - (This is my fake anonymous account. I am Female) I caught my fiance masturbating in the basement while watching porn over the internet. I pretended I didn't see him as he scrambled to cover his tracks. He minimized everything in his desktop and ...

Please help so I can stop stressing about unwanted pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Hii all, well the only way to start this is that i've managed to get myself into a right old panic atm. Thing is i had sex with my boyfriend without using a condom, stupid idea i know but i am on the contraceptive pill. I know all about th...

Is frequent masturbation at 30 normal??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My husband and i have been together for 8 years and married for only 2, our marriege is about to end, due to the fact that i keep catching him in the shower masturbating, he is 30 years old, we dont have sex anymore, except maybe once a month, and ...

Should I ask him what happened at the party or forget about it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I went to a party and got realy wasted with my freinds boyfreind i dont remember anything but i do remember waking up next to him with both my pants and underwear on backwards yea i know its wierd but he never said anything so i left without him ...

We slept together and now he is avoiding me...what happened??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - So after 3 weeks of dating and getting to know this guy who was planning future (months ahead) dates for us... we slept together. Now he is avoiding me? What happened?...

What's a good alternative to condoms?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Me and my girl friend have sex like any other couple does, just problably a little bit more, but the thing is we both don't like or belive in using condoms. I don't know what to do if i get her pregnant, like i will not leave if she does i love her ...

I feel I'm overdoing it, as I even do it at work... Should I be ashamed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend, began to send dirty text messages the other day, i really enjoyed it and ended up having to go to the bathroom at work at masturbate. It was rather embrassing. I try to get the dirty conversations going all the time because it ...

Can I get pregnant without intercourse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had a bit of sexual fun the other day. Well not the other day, bout 2 weeks ago now. He came, but his penis was not in side me as i am not ready to have full on sex yet. He fingered me about 10 minutes after he came but his penis ...

I really want to have sex with him , but I just think I'll end up pregnant, what can I do to get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 314 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and we have never had sexual intercourse. We have played around a lot with other practices such as oral sex but the one reason I have always shied away from intercourse is that I am absolutely terrified ...

I want a sexual relationship with my mother in-law! Has anyone experienced this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I've seen this topic brought up a few times, but I thought I'd ask advice from anyone here that might have experience on this. I know - this is horrible to say or think, but I really hope to make this work so spare me the preaching. I am extremely...

Fully arosed , how deep is a woman's vagina?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - What is the average depth of a fully aroused women's vagina? I think mine stays the same even when i am aroused(about 4 inches), or maybe I'm not aroused enough?...

Why won't he french kiss me anymore?... he does everything else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 311 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - My longtime boyfriend of several years used to french kiss me (really well) all the time during foreplay and sex. Now he will go down on me and is very oral sexually EXCEPT when it comes to French kissing. He will no longer French kiss me, only a ...

I think I'm truly in love with my ex. I don't know though!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - dear cupid, does he really miss me even though he said that he isnt in love with me anymore?? i dont know what to do!!! i still care about him though and he still cares about me!!! but just not in love with me like he used to be!! but the thin...

My wife has a low sex drive, I can live with it but would really like if she gave me blowjobs, any ideas to convince her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I have a sad and serious problem. I have been married to a fantastic woman whom I love very much for almost 5 years. But our sex life is not satisfying for me. She has a very low sex drive and basically only likes the missionary position and ...

5 things you didn't know about genital herpes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 311 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - 5 things you didn't know about genital herpes------- tips from http://www.STDromance.com STD dating site for people with herpes, HIV, HPV and other STDS. 1- Common, but on the decline Nationwide, at least 45 million people ages 12 and older --...

I slept with my ex who has a new girlfriend and now I'm really confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I made a huge huge mistake last nite!! My ex boyfriend and I ended badly because he really hurt me but we both new we loved each other still but he needed some space. He now has a new girlfriend whom he's been with for about a month, and they've ...

I can't pull my foreskin back all the way when it is erect only when it is flacid, I am really worried...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I am a 14 year old male who is uncircumsized and I can't pull my foreskin back all the way when it is erect only when it is flacid, I am really worried because I don't want this to affect my sex life, for I am a virgin and am going to start having ...

He doesn't look at me during sex...any ideas why??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is very passionate during foreplay but when we have sex he stares off into the distance with his eye's open. I know men are visually stimulated but he isn't looking at me... he gets a kind of glossed over look like he's not there. Any ...

Is there any way to stop wet dreams??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 14 and i recently started getting "wet dreams" - it's quite annoying and how to stop it ? Also , sometimes i wake up after one, I clean the semen with a tissue and flush it down the toilet.. can someone get pregnant if they use the toilet s...

After having intercourse, I get very dry

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - This is a rather private problem I've been having and I'm not sure what's causing it. After the first time I have sex in one night, my vaginal area becomes very dry. I'm not sure what is causing this problem. I'm emotionally ready for sex the ...

More MMF fun - some advice needed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Didn't think it would come to this and I probably know the answer but need to be told it from outside observers. Anyway, I'm in my thirties, and I'm pretty sure that I've fallen in love for the first time (I've been in relationships before, but not ...

I don't want to be in a relationship so I use porn, but feel dirty about it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - i don't want to go into another relationship for now. to do this, sometimes i watch porns and masterbate after that to calm down my lubido. but i feel so dirty after this most of the time. am i doing the right thing? please help me....

How can I make our sex more entertaining??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of one year always makes love to me twice or thrice per week and says am good. The only problem is we've been using the same style and i would like to make him feel good like he always does to me. What do i do?...

Can anything be done to help my partner maintain an erection??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Can anything be done to help a man who is unable to maintain an erection long enough to have intercourse. My new partner is unable to complete sex because his erection doesnt last, is this a common problem and how do we sort it? It is very ...

He does not make me feel wanted, I feel we are strangers living together out of fear of being alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - my fience and i have been together for 5 years now he is always tired and doesn't want to have sex as much as i do. i am 20 and he is 23, we are too young for this to be happening. i try wearing sexy stuff, i keep myself clean, i always try to make ...

Tips to compensate for smaller than usual size?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Hey i have a smaller than usually penis (4 in. irrect approx.) and wondering if anyone has a tip or two that would give me an edge in bed. I'm willing to try almost anything (not going to have "it" anytime soon but would enjoy some prior knowledge). ...

My girl is very loose, but I like it that way, problem is I cant stay hard, help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - hello everyone, I have a unique problem I believe. Let me say first I love my girlfriend and want to spend the rest of my life with her. We have been going out for about 3 years now, and things are really serious, marriage is on the horizon. My...

My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...