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22-25,
*mootnezz
writes: i don't want to go into another relationship for now. to do this, sometimes i watch porns and masterbate after that to calm down my lubido. but i feel so dirty after this most of the time. am i doing the right thing? please help me.
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reader, smootnezz +, writes (27 February 2008):
smootnezz is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks to everyone for responding. i appreciate it. God bless you all.
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reader, TasteofIndia  + ♥, writes (26 February 2008):
 Don't feel bad about masturbation, it's all right. It's totally healthy and normal - particularly for someone not in a relationship. Don't worry about using pornography sometimes - just make sure that you're not overdoing it. Be sure to sometimes just use your imagination too!
Enjoy, sweetness and don't feel guilty.
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): porn is being called the crack of the internet for a reason..it's addicting and if you are susceptable to it's lure you are playing with fire and it could ruin your life! If you find the materials you used in the past aren't enough and you are looking for more explicit materials, or you find yourself thinking about it more and more during the day.......run and don't ever look back. People don't realize how destructive porn can be when they start using it, but talk to a porn addict and they will tell you if they had known what would happen to them they would have never started using it...How do you know you won't become addicted?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 you shouldnt feel guilty or dirty after masturbation - its completely normal whether your in a relationship or not. however, are there any reasons why you dont want to get into a relationship? you shouldnt be substituting masturbation for a relationship, so ask yourself why you dont want a gf now. maybe your just not ready, which is fine!! just dont feel guilty, masturbation is completely normal and natural, everyone does it!!and porn just makes it all the more enjoyable!good luck xxx
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 It depends on your point of view, really. From a christian point of view, sex should be about sharing pleasure with someone you love and should not be treated as a bodily function.
Although most people masturbate, including many christians, they do it because it's addictive! Once you taste the pleasure, you just keep doing it!
Fair enough, but whatever you do, you should be happy. If masturbating to porn makes you feel dirty, try just using your immagination. Watching porn is like using people for sex and you might as well find a friend who'll be willing to help you chill, at least there'll be friendship!
Basically, do whatever makes you happy!
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reader, Lucy2118 +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Using porn is perfectly healthy. It's fair enough that you don't want a relationship but it doesn't mean you have to feel bad from masterbation.Hope this Helps.X
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