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Archived questions from: 7 February, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Am I a horrible person for thinking I can have my cake and eat it too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He's a lovely guy who cares about me deeply but who doesn't want sex with me. We're affectionate but there's no sexual chemistry there at all. In the early stages of the relationship, I was always the one ...

It takes along time for blow jobs to get me off..any advice??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - I have a hard time getting off with blow jobs unless watching porn at the same time, low testosterone I think. I like to get my wife off even though it is harder for me. I have to have a lot of foreplay and outside stimulus to make it happen. ...

How can I masturbate properly??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (?) - When it comes to masturbating, everyone says you should just experiment and see what you like. And I can find SOME things that I like, but I just don't seem to enjoy it that much. I'd love to be able to masturbate (I know it sounds strange) ...

Why cant I cum when I masturbate??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - hi, I have been masturbating for a while and i get the really good feeling and i feel it about to cum and i start shaking and moaning but i can't cum. Why? I use a vibrator, my fingers, the removable shower head but i cant cum. Why? It's a litt...

I love my partner, but I need more sex and he cant keep up due to his age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - I am 44 met this man 20 years older than me. He made me feel wanted and loved. He knows exactly what I want and I've never feel so good in my life. Two years on now I love him more everyday and want more sex with him. But he obviously cant keep ...

My one night stand ignored me for a while, but now has called. Should I call him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - About 4 months ago I had a bit of a one night stand with a "friend" - who we shall call James. I say friend very loosely though, we have only met eachother about 4 or 5 times through a mutual friend - who we shall call Darren. It was the most ...

I snogged a boy but now he is telling everyone I wasnt good. Well, he wasnt good either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Im 13 and i snogged this boy some time ago and even though i hadn't ever done it before i could tell he wasn't very good but i didn't say anything, and becuase it was my first time i wasn't very good either and now he has started to spread it and i ...

Do I not turn him on like I used to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Ok so I've been dating this boy for about 2 years now, we love having sex. He used to look at me,touch me,kiss me in the wierdest places (palm of my hand) but now he doesnt even look at me, he still loves having sex at me, but he doesnt look at me ...

My girlfriend is lying about the places she goes and seems secretive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has been lying about the places she go to and when i ask she said she forgot to tell me, We have been in the relationship for four years, My question is whenever i ask for us to have a good time, she says she ...

I have a lot of vaginal pain when I have sex. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - hi my name is suga and i am 18, i've been with my boyfriend for a while. we been trying to have sex but the problem is i get lot of pain in my vagina when he enters me which i can not take that pain. what advice can you give me. plz help ...

How do I tell her I want to make love to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - how do i tell her i want to make love to her...............i feel realy stupid about this because i'm 45 and should no what i'm doing.i no she considers me more then just a boy friend we are even going on a trip to newyork in a few weeks same room ...

I think I may have caught a sexually transmitted disease. What now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - i like having sex, but after i have it i feel really bad, i have it with my cosins and i am afaid i might have cought a dissease .what do i do? tell my my mum and get cheaked out or leave it and keep it too myself . by the way don't think im a...

When I give my boyfriend head, my mouth aches

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - When I give my boyfriend head, my mouth always aches so I have to change to something else. Is that normal and if there any other way to do it so my mouth doesn't ache so I can do it all the way through without swapping things. xXx...

My husband has lost all interest in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5930 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - My husband is 59 I'm 51.He does not seem to want sex anymore ,I'm at my wits end. I'm not sure if it's me are a medical problem.I have ask him several times if he was attracted to me he said yes,just not in sex anymore. The strange thing is he never ...

Can I use a condom during a BJ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - can i use a condom when doing a blow job cause i cant imagine myself sucking his thing?i have never done it and am a 29 year old virgin...

Only had one sex partner in my life, I can't get past the idea of having a second sex partner! I need advice from the more "experienced" please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Im 22 and he's 32, we been seeing each another for awhile We have known each and other for 2yrs or so we use to work togather but i quit my job back in may so him and i started seeing one and other after that cuz he was a manager in a diff ...

He's not writing back, what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - so I had sex for the second time! and and this time it was with someone I REALLY care about! well once agian it ended badly! this kid is mormon, hes the shy type but not with me! hes very cute! hes kinda a dork! which is what I LOVE most about ...

Masterbating behind girlfriends back, bad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - I masturbate, maybe two or three times a week, I try not to do it so much, because, honestly, it makes me feel really bad about myself, being, that I have a girlfriend. I feel like I'm the worst guy in the world, and it makes me really depressed. I...

My husband is going to be a father, but I'm not the mother, any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - I have been married for 14 yrs. We have 3 children 16,12, and 10. We have and presently have a wonderful friendship, sex life, and he is a wonderful father. He has just told me he had an affair with a lady at work with whom he told he was divorced. ...

I haven't had Sex in a year and It's really getting me down

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - I'm 19, I've gone a year without sex, and I feel pretty upset over it. It seems like such a terrible thing to say to your friends; "Well guys, I've not had any for a year, now". I've been in relationships, but they haven 't worked out, and so I'm ...

Too wet!!! Please help!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - When I have sex with my boyfriend I get really wet. I'm serious.... really wet but I usually don't even cum!! I just get very wet. My boyfriend says not to worry but I think it bugs him. How can I not get so wet during sex??? ...