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He really wants to hear me moan...is there anything I can do so when he tries again I do moan??

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Question - (27 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *arahCa1989 writes:

Yesterday I went over to my boyfriend's house. Well he wanted to hear me moan really bad. So he tried so hard just to get me to moan. He fingered me and kissed me on the neck a lot. I felt amazing but no moan came out. So he felt like he wasn't pleasing enough and all that junk. He isn't pressuring me to moan i just feel like i should make it up to him. So I was wondering what i could do so i would moan when he tries again?

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (28 February 2008):

If you don't feel like moaning don't do it,it'll be called faking.Just explaining to him that you feel good and that you don't wana fake anything.I'm sure he'll understand but if you are really hell bent about it you can practice on your own but you risk perfecting the art of faking moans.

Good Luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008):

If you are shy about it, about vocalising the pleasure you feel, put music on, slowly, tenderly. If you are concerned it won't be perfect, the music will somewhat mask, disguise your attempts. In a very short while you will be relaxed and confident to 'vocalise' without the orchestra(music on), I assure you.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (28 February 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntToasty is dead on,

No moan will come out unless you open your mouth and make the sound. You don't need to fake, just not be shy about just going "mmmmm". That's all it takes. Pretend you're eating some really delicious food... "mmmmm".

I think you'll be just fine. Tell your boyfriend to relax, that you're having a lot of fun and that you want things to just happen naturally.

Have fun, sweetness!

xx India

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008):

How do you indicate he is giving you pleasure? Usually I'd scratch my mans back, but when I orgasm, it just comes out in a sigh and a moan.

Moaning is also encouragement, so when he makes you feel amazing give him one. If you're feeling really passionate, it shouldn't be a problem to give him an 'Ohh...' and have it sound awesome. However, if you're not into it at all, it can sound really fake and awful.

It's not even acting. Just voicing your feelings.

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