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Does first time oral hurt?

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Question - (29 February 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Does it hurt getting a blow job for the 1st time ever?

because i'm a virgin but i'm scared to have sex with this girl that i like a lot.. what should i do???

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A male reader, anonyy Antarctica +, writes (10 November 2009):

kay i was looking up this question to cuz everytime my gf gives me a bj it actually does hurt like a really weird feeling like u wanna pull away and i wasnt sure if it was me or not but i figured it out lol but yeaa if they put ther teeth on you it doesnt feel good at all lol.. watch out :s

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2008):

Hey man, it never hurt me except when one ex-girlfriend accidently (I think) bit down too much during ejaculation. It put a small cut on the upper portion of the shaft which took quite awhile to heal. For a month or two, additional blowjobs had to be only to the tip until it healed.

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (29 February 2008):

love-him agony auntHEY!!

No babe, oral isnt there to be painful, it is meant for a joyfull experience.. Like LJ001 said, biting is probley the only reason why it would hurt, which i dont think she would bite.. oh and if she has braces, this could slightly hurt..

I hope i helped you, feel free to mail me at any time x x x

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A female reader, peaches08 United Kingdom +, writes (29 February 2008):

peaches08 agony auntTheres no rush to be sexually active.

As LJ001 has said, the only time it can hurt is if teeth get in the way, but usually, a girl will know what she is doing, so try not to worry too much about it.

An idea would be to actually wait until you are in a relationship, with someone you connect with rather than just being with them to get a BJ.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008):

Blow jobs aren't painful at all honey, as long as the girl has an idea of what she is doing. To be honest, the worst thing that could happen is that her teeth slightly brush (or bite..) your dick, which apparently is quite painful. In all honesty, it'll probably happen at some point in your life. But this shouldnt put you off! I've heard some guys talking about blow jobs they've recieved, and adore them. The only catch is, once you've had one, you keep wanting them! Don't worry about the pain, just relax and take things slow honey. If you're scared to have sex with her, maybe its not the time for you to lose your virginity. You're always going to be a bit nervous, but not scared, so make sure she doesnt make you do anything that you dont wanna. Good luck :]

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