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writes:I really like this kid. I don't know though, I'm trying not to get too involved because I don't want to get too attached because I'm sick of stuff like this but whatever anyways, he came over my house today and we did stuff. He tried to get it in, but I don't exactly know if his thing went in me. He wasn't wearing a condom and I don't know what to do for next time. I get nervous talking about that stuff and I'm not sure that I should be doing this. Can someone help me out? thx
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (28 February 2008):
You are a brave girl.I have my reasons for calling you that and even though most would condemn your behaviour,i see something in you that i wish many older ladies posessed.Women use sex to enslave and satisfy their desires and this time not sexual ones.Even though i must also confess that i don't see serious levels of understanding but hats off to how free you are with sex BUT hun you are too young for such.Just keep that thinking even when you grow up.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): no you shudnt. I know you are at an age where you dont like being told you are 'too young' - but you are.
Plenty of time - dont do anything you are not comfortable with until you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): If you're not sure weather or not he was inside you...hm. Well. As the school nurse to take you to a clinic. The payments (bills) can be diverted to the school instead of your parents, and the doctor and nurse are obligated to say nothing about your issues. The doctor will explain all the tests she may have to run (STD, pregnancy, etc), and you will be in good hands. In the future, use a condom and know when 'no' is an okay idea and a GOOD idea. If he doesn't know how to use one, don't bother with him. Boy mature much slower than girls.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 Learn to be assertive and say 'NO!'No one should violate your body and do stuff against your will.
He may give you the 'craps' and you will get sick and this will break your mom's heart.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 if you can't say cock or penis you could probably do without having one inside you generating a risk factor in your life that your naivety will prevent you from dealing with efficiently, and coping with emotionally.
if this is not what you want put your foot down and be strong-you know you can!!!!
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reader, Transcowboy +, writes (28 February 2008):
 you are too young to be doing anything like that, you need to enjoy being a kid and not be in such a hurry to grow up. If he tries it again, tell him no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): If you are trying not to get too attached than why are you having sex?
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