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male
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13-15,
anonymous
writes:Hey i have a smaller than usually penis (4 in. irrect approx.) and wondering if anyone has a tip or two that would give me an edge in bed. I'm willing to try almost anything (not going to have "it" anytime soon but would enjoy some prior knowledge). Thanx for reading and i hope u can help. Reply to this Question |
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Hey, remember your still young and growing yet =]Secondly foreplay is the key anyway women dont generally tend to orgasm during sex =] Try fingering her and giving her oral (when your legally old enough!)Remember when thet day eventually comes to use protection. 4 inches is closer to the average size then you think =] x
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female
reader, bc2283  +, writes (26 February 2008):
oral! depends on where her g-spot is too
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male
reader, q1605 +, writes (26 February 2008):
 well if i can begin by saying your dick is much closer to average than you suspect. The only dick that I am on a first name basis with is mine but you pick these things up along the way. Speaking in terms of evolution really small dicks just wouldn't have hung in there. But something you will want to learn no matter the size of your dick and how masterfully you sling it and that is to perform oral sex on a woman. The only way a man can learn it right is to have that one girl who will teach him to do it. I was lucky enough to stumble across this woman but if you find yourself closing in on your twentieth birthday and she hasn't Presented herself to you you may want to seek her out. Learning that one thing will keep your woman devoted to you even if you lost you penis in the war. You are way too young to get into the mechanics of it but that is a must do. You've got ample time. And until then you would be well served to devote as fair amount of time to just be around them and figure out their sensibilities. What makes them tick. You are living in an age of enlightenment and hopefully will have someone close by that will keep you from the blunders that my generation made. The fathers of men my age reaslly couldn't be bothered to learn what women like or need and it resulted in alot of unhappy women. Which resulted in even unhappier men. Here is a good example of what i am speaking of. You and your girl had a date for friday night. Friday night is here and instead of taking command of the evening you and her are still at her place. Earlier you were having a productive discussion of why you should quit refering to her best friend as "the bimb" but now you about one click away from spilling out the whole denigrating list of synonyms for women who make their living on their backs but you don't. you remark on that there is till time to throw back some suds before last call and if she is so inclined to look for you the bar might be the best place for her to start. And low and behold and this is why you love her so much, like the sun emerging from the clouds and rain she beams and says that she agrees that that is exactly where you should be. Any guy over 20 that falls for this really is too stupid to be allowed to live. Each woman will have her singularly own way of tormenting you but torment you they will if you go to that bar and leave her there at the house by herself. For that one simple situation there are thousands more. They are complex and each woman puts her own spin on the way she handles these things.And each time you walk up on an ambush and you have honed your instinct sharp enough to glide by. The happier both you and her will be.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Have fore play with her till she orgasm and then you do your thing.She will be satisfied. It is not your size that matters because you need a brain and not a big dick in how to satisfy her.
You can read a very good article here ;-http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sexandrelationships/helpwithorgasms.htm
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Well you're still young, so it should be growing still anyway, but for the mean time... A woman rarely orgasms through penetration (him going inside her) and strokes, so although she may not get quite as much pleasure, I doubt this would ruin the whole thing. Just remember, foreplay! Learn to pleasure her with other parts of your body, like your fingers and tongue. If you can get her to the point of an orgasm through this, then she's probably pleased already anyway! Be adventurous, maybe do some role play (like dressing up as a doctor, her a nurse, things like that) and get her some sexy lingerie. Your penis isnt everything in sex, so give her some amazing foreplay (fingering, oral, licking, kissing, make out with her, tease her, she could give you a strip tease etc.) and this should just about make up for it. Also, use lots of different positions and then she'll be 'on her toes' the whole time :] keep her excited. Good luck honey :]
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reader, rk06 +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Let's see, first of all... have you hit puberty? It gets bigger after that.A woman's vagina is usually only about 4-6 inches deep, and most of the nerves are toward the outside. So, you really don't have much to worry about.
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