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writes: It seems everyone is having sex these days. I'm only fifteen but I believe in 'no sex before marriage', I don't know why I believe in this because none of my family do. Everyone at school says I should try having sex with someone, I'm not at all bothered by peer pressure because I couldn't care less what people think of me. The reason I'm asking this is for me and only me. Am I just too old fashioned and boring or is it alright to still have this opinion about sex in this day and age? Any suggestions? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your advice and help, it really has helped. I always looked at my opinion as being old fashioned because everyone told me it was but now I can just take it as being my opinion. So thank you.
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reader, msnewbeginning  +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Don't let the talk get you interested. Sex is not all that people make it out to be. Once its gone, there's no turning back. Continue to follow your first mind, waiting is the best option! Check out Lyfe Jennings' song, S.E.X., its real. Sex has many consequences so holding on to your values will make you a better person!
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reader, Sarahh._x  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 I admire you so much, if you dont want to have sex then dont, its a brilliant attitude to have!
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (18 April 2011):
 I'm so glad to hear a girl your age feels like this, i hate seeing girls your age flaunting themselves and having sex willy nilly.
I say this to every one, your virginity is a gift - i know cheesy right? but you never get it back once youve given it away. Yours is not an old fashioned view its yours and you view it how you want to!
you may not stick to it if you find someone you love so much you want to give them everything, but its just reassuring to hear that atleast some one your age has this ideal.
good on you honey :) xx
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (18 April 2011):
Take into account that a lot of people at your age lie about having sex. You can be sure half the people about your age who told you they are not longer virgin, are lying.
Today virginity is being depreciated. And it's not completely wrong. But it doesn't mean everybody has to lost it as soon as possible. For example, having sex with someone you really love is SO MUCH BETTER than doing it with a random person. So, better than asking yourself if you want to be virgin until marriage, you should ask yourself what is your right time and the right guy to do it. You have to take into account that some guys will like the fact that you are a virgin (in the future).
Virginity is one of those things people tend to overvaluate or undervaluate too much.
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Stick to your principle sweetheart. Its a courageous path to take. All the best
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reader, Blod +, writes (18 April 2011):
 No, you're not at all old-fashioned and definitely not boring! I think you're more interesting actually, because you don't follow the crowd and have the strength of character to do this.
A lot of people feel the same way as you when it comes to sex before marriage, but it's very rare to find someone who'll stick to this. Dirtball sums it up perfectly. Do what you feel is right. I'm sure you'll have less regrets in the future.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 April 2011):
 Of course it's alright. You have to live your life as you see fit. Don't expect everyone to understand, but the right person will, and that's what matters.
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