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We broke up because he said we had lost the 'connection' but he is still talking to me and wanting to be in my life! Does he still love me?

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Question - (18 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

What should I do about my ex boyfriend? am so confused:(?

My ex boyfriend and broke up nearly 2months ago, he wasn't just my bf when we were together, he was my special friend as well and we did everything together and now I miss him so much, we talk cos he says am a really nice person and he wants us to be friends. He calls me whenever he's upset. I called him the other day and he said "just the person I wanted to speak to and you called right on time"

He says he misses me, he miss everything about me and about our relationship. Am redecorating my room and he's offered to come help me. I got a new hair do and he wants to see it but I keep saying no, I don't wanna come out to see him.

What should I do? He's still so caring and he says he's talking to girls but he's not interested in them he doesn't feel comfortable with them and is finally hit him how good we were together..we broke up cos he said we lost the connection we had, but I still felt it. So it must've been just him.

What should I do? So confused? How do I know he still loves me?

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A male reader, Welsh Uncle Dave United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2011):

Sometimes you don't realise what you had until you lost it and this seems like a classic example with your boyfriend.

You both clearly still have feelings for each other but the ball is in your court over what happens next.

You have to decide if you want to be with him and give him another chance or if you want to move on and tell him he's had his chance.

This is not meant to be easy but only you can decide what you do.

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