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It has been seven years and I still think about him

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Question - (18 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2011)
A female Botswana age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I keep dreaming of a certain guy I used to see at church 7 years ago. We never dated but we used to act when we saw one another. I left church because always I was dreaming of him but he never came to me by then. Its been 7 years and I'm now married but still I keep on dreaming him being very angry with me. Last month I saw his friend on Facebook and I told him that I kept dreaming of his friend but he said I should come back to church and leave my husband. I don't know if it means he is connecting me with him, he also mentioned that I should learn to be patient. I think he speaks with parables still I dont understand him. He also mentioned that I should think what I want my life to be like in 5 years. Still I haven't communicated with this dream guy. To my surprise also this guy hasn't moved on.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (19 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntYet you avoided my question about loving your husband...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2011):

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Trinklett maybe you are correct but his friend is close to him and he knows exactly what that guy wants.True he might not be the guy i used to know 7yrs.@ Dirtball remember i ran away from church because i thought i will just forget about him and he is stalking me in my dreams.

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A female reader, Trinklett Canada +, writes (18 April 2011):

Trinklett agony auntWhat makes you think this guy hasn't moved on? Until he says so personally, get a grip on yourself. Mind you he may not be the guy you knew 7 years ago

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (18 April 2011):

dirtball agony auntYou don't even know this man. You have some fantasy ideal of him in your head.

Honestly, what sort of religious person says "leave your husband for the church?" Sounds more like a cult to me.

Are you happy with your husband? Do you love him?

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