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I am too afraid to enjoy this romance because of past hurt! Help!

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Question - (10 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

ive met a guy. hes really into me.. hes soo sweet and funny. hes good looking.. goes uni really ambitious and seems really friendly and i think i like him too cos everytime i think about him i just smile.. he makes me really happy by just talking to him.

the thing is ive been hurt by my exes. i loved them but they left me heart broken without goodbyes.

so when this guy tells me anything, i just say whatever, I really wanna get to know him more and maybe be with him but the thought of him treating me like my exes did just scares me to death.

how do I make sure it doesnt happen and how do i take things slow with this guy??

he told me hes a good guy..but ive heard it all before.

p.s am not the type of girl to just jump into bed with guys...(only when is a relationship)

thnx.. oh and what are the things i could look out for please??

am 19, 20 in decmeber

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A female reader, Spendy United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2009):

Spendy is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Spendy agony auntthank you...x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 November 2009):

If he's a good guy, then his actions will say far more than his words. Listen to him, but really watch what he does. Does he make you feel good by DOING something, and not just saying it. A guy can more or less me measured by what he does. Give him a chance, get to know him and tell him you're shy and and need time, and watch how he treats you.

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