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22 October 2007 (F) - I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing ...

This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6031 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her ...

How can I know if he really does actually like me?

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22 October 2007 (F) - I have been sleeping with this bloke for about 4 months now, and a couple of weeks ago he told me he likes me and that he is not just sleeping with me for the sake it. I have started to really, really like him now. The problem is I don't know if ...

Are men biologically incapable of forming close emotional bonds with anyone, including wives, girlfriends, etc? Is it the release of oxytocin?

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22 October 2007 (F) - Are men biologically incapable of forming close emotional bonds with anyone, including wives, girl friends, etc.? I've read and heard in the news a lot lately about how the neurotransmitters (oxytocin) released by the brain in women to bond wi...

He has a girlfriend, so why was he so desperate to see me?

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22 October 2007 (F) - hi, i have once asked for help with this situation about 8 months ago, but it went quiet for awhile but now im back in the same situation again! i have very strong feelin for a very good friend of mine we've been friends for alot of years. ive felt ...

When I show him signs of affection he gets scared. Later, we become close again! I can't stand this pattern! What can I do?

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22 October 2007 (F) - I am inlove with someone who just got over a bad relationship 1 year ago, but i think he is still hurt about it an he says that he is still inlove with her. Everything was going ok with us, he was honest to tell me he liked me but wasn't ready for ...

I want to get pregnant, but his sex drive is a problem! Also, I love him, but is he right for me?

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22 October 2007 (F) - lately, I am being coming home late from school (around 10) my boyfriend wakes up early in the morning, so we just eat together and he falls sleep instantly... It is really hard to have sex. I want to get pregnant... what could I do to incentive his ...

We are fantastic together, but he always leaves to solve his marriage issues and ends up returning! Will he come back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I have had a wonderful relationship with a man for nearly 3 years. We are best friends as well as having so much passion and chemistry. We miss each other terribly if we ever have to be apart. I love him with all my heart and soul and want to spend ...

What are the signs that she likes me??

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22 October 2007 (M) - Hi, I am at university and there is a girl i find attractive. We work together in practicals etc. Can anyone tell me signs that she may like me too?...

Should I contact her and tell her how I feel?

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22 October 2007 (M) - Please help, I am still in love with a woman after 14 years. I met her 14 years ago,we worked together, I feel deeply in love with her, like I have never experienced love. I was married at the time with two young children and she was only 22 and had ...

He touched my bum - does that mean he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - i know this sounds an odd question but ive known this guy for over a year and the past few months hes alway talking about wanting to sleep with me in front of my face and in front of others to which i find really strange that i just laugh it off. he ...

If its just connection problems, then why was he so aggressive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Im having problems with my significant other. He's is away for two weeks and ive tried to ask him nicely to get on the internet from his hotel. So on tuesday he tried but then claimed that he wasnt able to get on but his peers were. And ye...

I was told to 'go back to africa' by my boyfriend - am I over reacting by breaking it off?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Till recently i was in an interracial relationship (black and white). My boyfriend and I got into a political discussion and he told me to go back to Africa and I broke it off. Some of my friends say it was just a slip of the tongue and it's no big ...

I want to put things right - what can I do to make her feel special?

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22 October 2007 (M) - how can i suprise my girlfriend? we have been a bit rocky at the moment and i want to put it behind us and move forward...

I fell in love with another guy and I'm married.

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22 October 2007 (F) - hi, please help me get off to this situation.. im married, i have fallen to onother guy, yes i made mistake but i really wanted to get off to this other guy, although i loved him already.. i know its wrong to be with him coz im married.. i do love ...

How to build muscle mass.

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22 October 2007 (M) - I am 40 (M), married. I am 5'6" and 60 Kgs. I smoke 30 cigrettes a day. I feel I am underweight and not well built. I mean no good mass over my bones and muscle stuff. so I feel I am underweight. I want to put on the required weight so that I can ...

What is it that he wants?

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22 October 2007 (F) - Dear sexually active men, I need your help! My husband, first slowly, then suddenly, lost interest in sex. Then he went through the period of "great quiet". He would not say a thing or comment, or explain himself. I was almost convinced that h...

Is he playin head games with me, or does he really have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I have this guy that i work with...i really think i'm in love with him and i know he's got feeling for me too. whenever i talk to him on the phone, or see him at work my stomach feels like it's knotting up. my hands sweat whenever i get close to ...

The thought of her leaving again makes me physically sick.

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22 October 2007 (M) - I am madly in love with my gf...after five years, am more in love with her than ever. We will marry, but not until we are out of school and have jobs, etc. She spent half of last school year in a program in Europe. She asked for my input and I ...

I'm married with four kids but in love with my HS sweetheart, any suggestions?

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22 October 2007 (F) - Hi. I am married with 4 kids. My husband and I had a child when I was 16. He was no where to be found , untill he showed up on my door step when my child was 4 and I had another by someone else. 3 days later we got bacj together and have been ever ...

Will wearing it compramise my beliefs, or make it hard to follow them?

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22 October 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 6 months ended up going into a halloween store after we'd found out our friends were throwing a halloween party. After looking around a bit we came to the women's section. We stood there for a while and he asked me if i liked ...

What does she mean?

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22 October 2007 (F) - this girl i have been liking for well over 5 mnts now and was totally into me replied to a text i asked my ex to send to her. it went like this. my ex (A.B.) the chic(R.W. A.B~ so do u like chelsea? (chelsea is me) R.W.~like a friend A.B...

First date, can you help me?

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22 October 2007 (M) - Hello, I am a thirteen year-old christian eigth grader starting to date a 7th grader at my church, I want to date her, and just asked her out, she said yes, but I think I might blow it... Can you help me?...

Should I pursue him or leave him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5928 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Should I call him? We've known each other for years. Hadnt seen him in years. He's been through a lot in life. Drug addictions, crazy women, absent father. He has had over 3 kids only two are alive, the rest died almost immediately afte...

Re-married but want to be back together without hurting our spouses.

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22 October 2007 (M) - i am married 1 kid. my ex-wife is married 1 kid. we have 2 together. we have been divorced 8yrs. we recently realize we still love each other madly and truly we split because of alcohol but dont want to hurt are kids by our new spouses but cant ...

Should I move on, or wait on him?

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22 October 2007 (F) - Theres this guy and we have been flirting for a while and he asked me did I like him and I was too shy to tell him yes.He goes on and gets another girlfriend but we flirt frequently. He said if he didnt have a girlfriend than we could have gone out. ...

Should II stay, or go?

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22 October 2007 (F) - I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend 'Matt' for 15 months and I love him dearly, we've always talked about goals and marriage and houses etc but lately our relationship has been on the rock pretty bad. He no longer makes me feel special and he ...

I'm in love with my cousin in law, Help?

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22 October 2007 (M) - Im 14 and shes 23. We are not related in any way. She is married to my cousin, and they have two kids. We have been talking a lot and spending a lot of time together and I think i fell in love with her. I know I should accept that this love isnt ...

Should I be worried, and how to overcome it.

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22 October 2007 (M) - I have been with my Girlfriend for 10 months now. We have recently started college and had big changes in our relationship due to less time with eachother. Throughout the holidays, I had her to myself. She's not very sociable so she didn't reall...

Can you give me an opinion to this situation?

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22 October 2007 (M) - So ive been with my g/f for 8 months and everything was incredible til about 2 wks ago, she got very depressed. Were both 25. We never actually planned on being in a relationship, it started as just a friend w/ benefit type of situation. When we ...

Help, My hubby won't sleep with me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - My husband doesnt like having sex with me. It really depresses me so much - I see people on TV etc in love scenes and it upsets me. I have been with him since I was 17 and the only man I have been with. I know people have good sex lives but that is ...