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writes:hi, i have once asked for help with this situation about 8 months ago, but it went quiet for awhile but now im back in the same situation again! i have very strong feelin for a very good friend of mine we've been friends for alot of years. ive felt like this for a long time and always assumed it was just something i would get over, but years later im still feeling this way. to make matters worse he has a girlfriend, but ive just held my head up and got on with it.however, just over a year ago we ended up getting with each other and it was him who made the first move. nothing happened after for several months we just ignored it. until a few days ago, after a drink we had the odd kiss and he was desperate for me to meet him and was texting saying how much he needs to see me. i did think it was the drink talking so left it but i havent heard from him since and feel really confused now, have i put him off? after all he has a girlfriend what would he want with me? should i be the one to contact him first this time? help :(
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reader, mixedlexi  +, writes (23 October 2007):
well im kinda in thhe exact situation u r.this boy i liked wanted to chill wit me but he has a gf........i couldnt figure it out y too cuz his girl gives him eveything he wants......it finally dawned o me that he probably wants someone o the side and might be really confused ..ur best bet is to ask him where u stand with him and see if he jus wants to chill or he really does like u.......its wise to never get i between a guy and his girl
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