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Big Questions: Help and advice

I've suffered a traumatic experience, now I've put on weight, how can I get myself back on track?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hiya, I'm 17 and 6 months ago i was raped. I started eating loads and i have gained so much weight i use to be a size 10-12 and now im a 16-18. I hate my body so much and i have lost all my confidence, i was woundering if anyone can give me any advi...

Did I have to dump this guy to make him interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped?? May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone i really like because he wasnt sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wondering if men w...

Is it true that I can get HIV from a belly bar from Spain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Heya.... i got my belly pierced 8 weeks ago and i changed the bar to 1 that my sister got me from spain..... i cleaned it with boiling salt water but i am scared that i could catch HIV.... Because apprently you can?? is this true??...

Are there any good books on crazy folk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend says crazy things that I cant understand. Yesterday I said 'I hate him', And he said he likes the way my words sound and my lips move. Then I calmed down I love him so much. Even if he's a bit crazy. Is there any good books on crazy ...

Do you think their is a future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - do you have any tips on how to successfully date a dysfunctional man who also has a dysfuntional family. do you think that there is a future with this relationship.? thanks...

How long should I wait for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - bin going out with my girlfriend for 18 months we have had lots of oral but no intercoarse. she has had sex with two boy friends before me . How long should I wait, She is not having sex with anybody else . She wants to be sure I am the one. She ...

Do you think its wrogn, I'm 15 and my boyfriends 21

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - everyone makes a big deal about age its only a number ... i know i don't have consent. but our relationship is great. We swore to each other that sexual intercourse wouldn't be brought into it. until i come of age. my mum is fine about it . My dad ...

Should I move on, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hi i was wondering if you could help me my boyfriend and me just broke up cuz he said he just needed time i got my friend to go up and ask him does this mean you'll go out with her later should i keep looking for a new man or do i wait?.........im ...

Should I follow him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - The man I'm in love with moved to another state for his career. Should I follow him?...

When should I put pressure on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - where do you guys think a dating relationship between two mature adults should be at the end of the third year of dating? do you think we should be engaged? do you think we should be planning a wedding? how long would you recommend waiting before ...

Do I have something to wory about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi,I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months and its been going great untill now , he seems to be not as loving towards me and i was looking at photos on his myspace an it has him kissing another girl(only on the cheek) and ...

When is the good time, to start living togetehr?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi everyone! So I have a BF (5months now). We have a great relationship and we love each other. I know he is the one - I never felt this way for anybody and he saiz the same. The guestion is ... When do you think is a good time to start liv...

How many partners have you had?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - This is a very general question, based on the numerous questions that I see posted about couples dealing with one partner's sexual past. How many sexual partners have YOU had? Do you regret the number, be it big or small? How many "one-night-stand...

How should I go about talking to her about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year now, and we love each other very much. I don't really let things bother me, but there's this one thing she does that just really irritates me. She tells her friends everything about us...

Friends jealousy is tearing apart our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boss introduced me to his friend back in May. In June we became serios. My boss and my boyfriend live across the street from each other and have known each other for ten years. Boss is known as Uncle B and his wife is known as Aunt T to my ...

I have OCD, and I'm worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - help im worrying about something which happened about a year and a half ago. Its come back to me again. Having ocd makes it worse for me. One day me and my two friends was drinking in my house the lad i like was drunk but me and the other boy wasnt. ...

How can men move on so easily? Do they actually move on easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why do men jump from woman to woman, are they in love with anyone or just themselves. How can you be sure if he loves you, if he is constantly with this one, that one, the next one. How can men move on so easily... ...

Every area that she has pointed out I have worked on but I feel she hasn't. Any help/suggestions please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - Just like to say thank you for taking the time to read this question! I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months. She's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. But recently we have been having problems. We have had a few seriou...

Why do men still call the ex, when they have a new gf? It's odd and disrespectful to call the ex on your way to a banquet with your new gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why do men still call the ex GF, even when they have a new girlfriend. I mean staying cordially is ok, but I think it is odd, and disrespectful to call me on your way to a banquet with your new girlfriend. I also think it is disrespectful to call ...

Are words really necessary?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Extended gaze? Have you ever looked into his/her eyes and known instantly that he/she loves you too without need of saying it with words? ...

Should I ask him if he wants me to go to his mother's funeral?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriends mum has died recently i never got to meet her the funeral is tomorrow and i dont know if he wants me to go with him im to scared to ask him as since her death i have not really seen him i just dont know what to do ...

How do I go about getting an abortion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - If i go for a preganancy test and find that am positive how do do away with that, the pregnancy is less than a month....

Should we meet up or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I met this guy at a wedding but, his 43 and im 21, we had cemistry from the firts moment we layed eyes on each other. but the problem is his never been married but his got two children with 2 different women. Now he wants to meet up, should i or ...

Does she love me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - hey i been dating my girlfriend for 2 year but lately i think everything falling apart i think she pushing me away she doest say she love me but when i ask her do u love me she say yes she said she going threw something but i dont no any advice...

I want a future with him, but if he marries it may ruin all chances.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I am hoping that someone can help me. I have noone I can talk to about this, and I'm so depressed I don't know what else to do. First, I am an unhappily married woman. I have only been married a little over a year but together for 6. I also ha...

I'm always thinking about her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - So i'm in high school. I'm a senior at a local high school in the bay area of california. There is this girl I have known since about 3rd grade whom i've always adored (i've had a crush ever since I can remember first seeing her.) She never ...

I want to ask him really bad. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Okaayy soo my School dance is coming upp soon and its in like 2 dayss. and i've still haen;t askked anyyonee. butt .. i likee to bee askked but i don;t thinkkk anyonee well.. butt theres someone in mind that i want to askk andd i like him alo...

I may be a hopeless romantic.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hiya people. I seem to have a lot of trouble in having friends, much less GUY friends. The problem is that i have NO GUY friends wahtsoever...and i ask myself, is this why i dont have a boyfriend either? Because, in movies and such, to be wit...

Do highschool kids dress up for halloween for school .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hey, so i was wondering if popular kids dress up for halloween [at school?]?? what do kids do nowadays anyway? i think it would be fine to dress up to school, but i dont know. high school kids, that is... please help!...

What signs are shown when someone still cares.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - Me and my ex of 3 years broke up a little over 4 months ago. we lived together the whole time, had alot of ups and downs. but since the break up shes been dating different guys. How do i tell she still loves me and cares if we dont talk, because ...

Should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - BF for over a year has told me that he is not emotionally and financially ready for marriage. We're both 31 years old. Does he mean that I am not the one for him and I should move on? ...

I don't want her to call off the wedding or something over this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - My fiance asked me about my sex past the other night and we got to talkin about it, i told her more or less the truth, i have slept with about 60 diff. chicks (mostly one night stands, a few threesomes and 2 orgies- i had some wild parties)i didnt ...

I need some tips on how to get over this.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - i met my ex about 2 months before we started dating. we hardly ever talked, and he was with one of my friends anyways. we hooked up over the summer, and dated for about a month. it was a fantastic relationship, and i thought we were doing really ...

I still love him, but feel real confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I need advice! Please! I have been seeing a married man for over 9 months now. The affair became very intense very quickly. He usually stays with me a couple of times a week. (although, this has reduced recently) He has told me many times he loves ...

Why won't my ex leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why won't my ex leave me alone? I broke up with him 3 weeks ago and he still texts me to say he misses me. I don't respond. He called yesterday but the caller id said unknown because he knew I wouldn't answer if I knew it was him, so stupidly I ...